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Sex, Sadism and Fucking, and Sex (18)

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29 Oct 06, 11:30 AM
x_flaire_x
UK(OX), 10 yrs

When I serve Altheus, I don't get a sexual thrill from it. Instead, I have a spiritual and intellectual sense of completion.

Sure, the play aspect of our relationship is entirely sexual - bondage, flogging, sensation and even humiliation play. But the play only takes up a part of lives together.

I enjoy serving Altheus, I love keeping his home and tending to his needs. But it definately isn't sexual. I certainly don't aroused cleaning out the fridge!

f x

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29 Oct 06, 11:33 AM
alexandraa
UK(NW), 8 yrs

flaire_123 wrote:
But it definately isn't sexual. I certainly don't aroused cleaning out the fridge!

I wonder are there some people who have a cleaning out the fridge fetish...

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29 Oct 06, 11:35 AM
x_flaire_x
UK(OX), 10 yrs

alexandraa wrote:

I wonder are there some people who have a cleaning out the fridge fetish...

Probably! I'm just not one of them.

f x

Stand before your god, bow before your king and kneel before your man - Nanny Ogg, Lords and Ladies

29 Oct 06, 11:43 AM
ripecherry
UK, 6 yrs

flaire_123 wrote:

alexandraa wrote:

I wonder are there some people who have a cleaning out the fridge fetish...

Probably! I'm just not one of them.

f x

I guess this is what I was trying to get at,we all get different things from BDSM. Not all of them can be classed as sexual.

29 Oct 06, 12:01 PM
alexandraa
UK(NW), 8 yrs

ripecherry wrote:

I guess this is what I was trying to get at,we all get different things from BDSM. Not all of them can be classed as sexual.

Absolutely. And absolutely for me to be happy in a relationship, it needs many things but especially to be highly sexually charged and have SM woven into that sexuality. The sexual charge comes from both power exchange and SM (as well as a desire for the person but then I can't desire the person without feeling that desire to submit to them....). It's complex and interwoven.

But my original point was sadism is sexually driven and I find it kind of scary to think there are people out there whose sadism isn't sexually motivated.

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29 Oct 06, 12:17 PM
ripecherry
UK, 6 yrs

alexandraa wrote:

ripecherry wrote:

I guess this is what I was trying to get at,we all get different things from BDSM. Not all of them can be classed as sexual.

But my original point was sadism is sexually driven and I find it kind of scary to think there are people out there whose sadism isn't sexually motivated.

Yes ,sometimes sadism is about power and control. Nothing to do with sex. There is a fine line between control freaks/sadists and those motivated by sex alone,and YES,this is scary at times.

29 Oct 06, 1:53 PM
dawntigga
6 yrs

alexandraa wrote:

ripecherry wrote:

Not always! Sometimes I do crave for that heavy flogging on my shoulder blades,in order to achieve that mental state which is rarely sexual.It is that flying /floaty feeling ,which is obviously better that bad sex.

And when you've felt that floaty feeling does your body not crave for sex too? Is your cunt not wet and your gut aching for that certain feeling only sex can give?

Whereas I agree with everything else you've said for me that side of things totally shuts down when I space.

tigxx

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29 Oct 06, 1:58 PM
alexandraa
UK(NW), 8 yrs

pinksparklytigga wrote:

Whereas I agree with everything else you've said for me that side of things totally shuts down when I space.

tigxx

It's interesting how different people's bodies respond, in me it's very much the sexual high that adds to the spacey feeling.

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