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is replying to mails related to age?? (58)

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17 Oct 06, 10:03 PM
Ms_Tytania
7 yrs
And can I use this space to remind all potential subs that we Dommes regularly

* * * * COMPARE NOTES WITH OTHER DOMMES * * * *

... So either be honest, or keep inventing new lies. It's a small scene! :-D

"There is a big secret about sex: most people don't like it."
Leo Bersani.

17 Oct 06, 11:00 PM
saielle
6 yrs
Supernanny wrote:
I have to say I used to reply to all but now I don't. My profile is clear in what I want, it also says quite clearly I won't reply if my requirements have been ignored.

Today a memo, aged 24, bi, not local, not single - Why should I reply when he has clearly ignored my profile.

Also, the cut & paste messages, same message, sent to lots of people and then they forget and send it to me again. Do they deserve a reply? I think not.

Precisely! Well said, Supernanny!

17 Oct 06, 11:07 PM
gimpneil
UK(DN), 7 yrs

I'd say its more to do with how confident any person (man or women) is with there email along with the amount of time they give them, I reply almost straight away but thats due to my outlook being in the background and being on line at least a few minutes a day.
18 Oct 06, 12:57 AM
Oral_Giver
6 yrs
Ms_Tytania wrote:
And can I use this space to remind all potential subs that we Dommes regularly

* * * * COMPARE NOTES WITH OTHER DOMMES * * * *

... So either be honest, or keep inventing new lies. It's a small scene! :-D

ahhh Yes, the hidden Network comes to Light at last.

I keep inventing New lines, because I'm NOT honest.

:-D

It's easier than sending the same memo everywhere. Although I've sort of done that on occassion as well.

Now You got me making confessions here.

sheesh.

Edited 18 Oct 06, 12:58 AM by Oral_Giver

18 Oct 06, 7:48 PM
Supernanny
6 yrs
Ms_Tytania wrote:
And can I use this space to remind all potential subs that we Dommes regularly

* * * * COMPARE NOTES WITH OTHER DOMMES * * * *

... So either be honest, or keep inventing new lies. It's a small scene! :-D

Don't we just ;-)

www.lovetrix.co.uk

18 Oct 06, 9:50 PM
djoker
PK, 6 yrs
Ms_Tytania wrote:
And can I use this space to remind all potential subs that we Dommes regularly

* * * * COMPARE NOTES WITH OTHER DOMMES * * * *

... So either be honest, or keep inventing new lies. It's a small scene! :-D

That is not fair :(

25 Oct 06, 11:24 PM
deletedeletedelete
6 yrs
djoker wrote:
as far as i am concerned, I have seen that on sites like these whenever you send an email to a woman in her twenties, you wont most probably get a reply back. send the same kind of email to a woman over thirty or forty and you will most probabyl get a reply back. I was wondering if there was an age issue? or if it was due to some other factors, say, younger woman often inundated with emails.??

I would expect a lot of guys send more emails to younger ladies than older ones. A lot of guys seem to want a newbie sub, (not applying this to Dommes of course.) and assume because a woman is young, she is a newbie, even if the profile says otherwise.

As a younger sub, I've also discovered people don't always attach much respect to an email, and make a lot of assumptions just going by a girl's age. I end up replying more to a lot of older guys and making some great new friends, but not really finding a partner. lol

Though if all your emails are honest and friendly, they are probably just inundated! -I put up an ad when I was 18 and got about 400 replies in two weeks... since then, the number of replies recieved has gone gradually down, so you could be onto something...

26 Oct 06, 5:47 PM
djoker
PK, 6 yrs
KinkiMinx wrote:
djoker wrote:
as far as i am concerned, I have seen that on sites like these whenever you send an email to a woman in her twenties, you wont most probably get a reply back. send the same kind of email to a woman over thirty or forty and you will most probabyl get a reply back. I was wondering if there was an age issue? or if it was due to some other factors, say, younger woman often inundated with emails.??

I would expect a lot of guys send more emails to younger ladies than older ones. A lot of guys seem to want a newbie sub, (not applying this to Dommes of course.) and assume because a woman is young, she is a newbie, even if the profile says otherwise.

As a younger sub, I've also discovered people don't always attach much respect to an email, and make a lot of assumptions just going by a girl's age. I end up replying more to a lot of older guys and making some great new friends, but not really finding a partner. lol

Though if all your emails are honest and friendly, they are probably just inundated! -I put up an ad when I was 18 and got about 400 replies in two weeks... since then, the number of replies recieved has gone gradually down, so you could be onto something...

I do understand what you are saying. and I think that is one of the main reasons why younger women dont bother to write back. but I think that is what leads to those same women making generalisations about all the men out there. many men dnt read the profiles. they simply send in a memo to the younger women without realizing whether they are looking for an older man or not. it often becomes heard to reply to all emails but i think the ones that truly look honest ones should be replied back. usually you can just read it and see the tone.

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