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IC : Weblogs : Blubell : "Blogging for Backlash"

Blogging for Backlash (1)

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Blubell
Posted by Blubell on Mon 9 Oct 06, 11:38 PM

I'm not very good at this kind of thing. I can talk for hours about anything at all but when it comes to something like this I can't seem to find the words but here goes.

For the first time in My 29 years I have found a happiness and a contentment. A place where I can finally be who I want to be without fear of being laughed at, a place where I am accepted for Me. With that I have found the love of My life. I am her Dominant one, her Mistress if you will, but, without her consent I would not have that priviledge. And it is a priviledge, a gift, given to Me from her. Without that there would be nothing at all. Just as in a 'normal' relationship, there has to be 2 consenting adults that have a respect and a genuine shared interest in another way to express love, need, desire and want. What We do is a 2 way thing or it just simply wouldn't work.

You see, thats where I think that the proposed legislation has got its wires crossed. Abuse of another indivdual is 1 person using their influence, power, age, whatever you want to call it, to gain in whatever way they want, at the consequence and destruction of another Everyone here knows and respects the boundries, the limits that have been set and the person that they are with. To class Us amongst others that do not know the difference between right and wrong is, well, wrong.

The people that should be under scrutiny don't have a clue where to draw the line and yes, they should be punished for that.

People like Me who have a healthy relationship with a like minded individual should be allowed to live in a way of Our choosing.

Blu x

Edited Mon 9 Oct 06, 11:39 PM by Blubell

Replies

10 Oct 06, 12:20 PM
cuddlybeth*
UK, 4 yrs
I entirely agree with you blu and really agree with your relationship with lumi I just wish I had found someone albeit a man as early as you two have I might be a different person now. Hope to see you both soon

 
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