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IC : Weblogs : venus_flames : "Let down."

Let down. (5)

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venus_flames
Posted by venus_flames* on Tue 26 Sep 06, 9:48 PM

Why is it when you start to believe in people they let you down? I'm not going in to detail, but right now I don't like people much and I think I would rather be a cat.

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26 Sep 06, 10:10 PM
Mistress_B
UK, 3 yrs 
I would say that many peoople chat, get your hopes up then do not come up with the good... many play at this ... a few are real. chin up ... bck to the drawing board... there ARE good guys out there
27 Sep 06, 12:32 AM
subdoug30
UK(RH), 4 yrs 
barbie_alto wrote:
I would say that many peoople chat, get your hopes up then do not come up with the good... many play at this ... a few are real. chin up ... bck to the drawing board... there ARE good guys out there

But you can also be a good guy and get absolutely nowhere on this site either...

sub doug

27 Sep 06, 3:34 PM
silversub1947
UK, 2 yrs 
I felt like this only a week or so ago. But I decided to get back on the bike (so to speak) and now have found someone who is 100% genuine and perfect for me. So, don't give up - I reckon there are more 'good guys' here than bad ones :-)

Yeah! This time the light at the end of the tunnel wasn't a train :-)

27 Sep 06, 4:28 PM
subtrainer69*
UK(SA), 7 yrs 
subdoug30 wrote:
barbie_alto wrote:
I would say that many peoople chat, get your hopes up then do not come up with the good... many play at this ... a few are real. chin up ... bck to the drawing board... there ARE good guys out there

But you can also be a good guy and get absolutely nowhere on this site either...

I agree absolutely, it seems to happen across the board no matter what gender you are or aspect of Bdsm..D/s you follow.

It is the price we have to pay for looking around on an excellent site that will unfortunately attract time-wasters.

I have to say also that I was once approached on here by a nice lady who became my slave. We did not live happily every after but the two years were good!

It can happen, cheer up and be patient you are not alone.

Quote: "an' it shall harm no one, do what ye will"

4 Oct 06, 3:22 AM
venus_flames*
UK(WR), 2 yrs 
Thanks for your words of encouragement. Half the problem is I just don't seem to have any spare time to myself anymore, so the time I do have feels more precious.

I guess i'll have to dust my bike off, but it needs a good oil before I get on lol.

Thanks again, Vx

 
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