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IC : Weblogs : alexandraa : "Completely Impatient"

Completely Impatient (1)

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alexandraa
Posted by alexandraa* on Wed 20 Sep 06, 6:40 PM

Why use one word when you can talk for twenty minutes to impart the same level of information? I'm not the most patient of people. My most hated thing is to go to meetings and be kept waiting. Especially when the people concerned have begged and pleaded and understand the pressures on my working day. I've learnt my lesson in times gone by and keep very strict hours. Either it gets crammed into that or it's bollocks to it. Work life balance and all that. It's very important.

And today the meeting I went to started twenty five minutes late. TWENTY FIVE minutes LATE. How not impressed was I? Oh so fucking not impressed. I'd arrived 10 mins early knowing it was a likely thing the chair of the meeting would want a word with me before things started. So that's 35 minutes wasted. I could have done a mountain of stuff in 35 minutes. I haven't got time to waste 35 minutes. Growl.

Consequently I sat through the meeting seething and frothing, snapping and snarling, then completely ignoring proceedings and generally behaving in an aggressive and impatient way. 15 mins into overrun time and I announced my need to leave. Bollocks I thought.

No idea why people at work think I'm dominant. Where could that come from?

I'm just very driven and focussed that's all. I look at what I need to do and do it. Why the fuckity fuck do other people prevaricate, arse about and generally waste time? How can they bear it? You know let's keep to the point. If we're doing sex and beatings let's get the hell fucking on with it. If we're having a meeting about strategy then lets talk sense and practicalities.

What do you mean you bet my weak spot is letting other people contribute to meetings? I've no problem with that so long as they come out with it and keep it sharp.

So where's the submissive in that? Easy I'm focussed when it comes to that too. An all or nothing kind of gal. You can see why objectification, caging and bondage are completely dismissed by me as forms of anything remotely interesting can't you?

No, don't even think you'd like to try that with me. Yawn. Hard limit. Just call me action sub and get the hell on with whatever you're going to get the hell on with. Now you're getting the wrong impression I bet. I am actually very good at being patient and doing as I'm told. No really. I am.

Today has just been a day of unpleasant frustrations. But FT is about to arrive now, so it's wine and Italian food for us. Calmness returns…. well in some kind of form anyway.

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22 Sep 06, 5:10 PM
alexandraa*
UK(NW), 5 yrs 
I think Kensington will take a while to recover "darhlinkkkk" and as for the Lanesborough Hotel, how cute are they in their bowler hats? We should book a suite next time, such a snip at £970.00. We'll take two.

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