On maleness (9)

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Posted by attica on Sat 9 Sep 06, 11:37 PM

I've wondered about domspace, but this is in a different strain.

The other day I wondered about what a man feels about his penis being visible, not so much visible as external, whilst cunt is very internal, and how much that makes for a difference between the genders, how they think, act.

Men probably quite often see other another man's penis in changing rooms, restrooms (shoot me now please, I just Americanalized!) whereas women rarely see other womens' cunt: sure, the frontispiece in changing rooms etc, but not the(w)hole.

And of course it's so obvious men pee through it, whilst women have a slightly more discreet arrangement.

Then I was thinking about being entered. How it might feel to be inside someone, to be able to do that, to KNOW that you can do that. Trying to think what it might be to be male.

What difference it makes between how men and women think.

Edited Sun 10 Sep 06, 12:00 AM by attica

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10 Sep 06, 12:34 AM
Prunesquallor
UK, 3 yrs Men generally, despite women's speculations as to the contrary, tend not to eye up other men's todgers when they are peeing into the neighbouring urinal.
The penises one tends to see in changing rooms, etc., tend to be the larger variety, because the men who possess large ones tend to try to make them as visible to as great a number of people as possible.
Can only speak from my experience:-
So far as sex is concerned, it is a delight to be surrounded by cuntflesh, a delight to be gipped by a tight anal sphincter, and a delight to be awash in the soft wet sensations of a mouth. To penetrate is like a kind of ecstastic dance, where each movement brings a wash of pleasure, mounting to a frenzy.
When I come it first becomes apparent with a thin, high, sensation that gradually opens out. Then come the 'lower' waves, and each pulse, each spurt, is a 'low' wave of sensation that is overwhelming. There is also a psychological pleasure of knowing you are emptying yourself in her. Once your orgasm starts, nothing can stop it; if your head was chopped off you would probably continue to come.
Afterwards you feel completely spent, and can do nothing but breathe.
But unfortunately words are inadequate - we shall never really know what the other feels.
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Edited 10 Sep 06, 12:35 AM by Prunesquallor

10 Sep 06, 1:53 AM
SnowdropExplodes
UK, 4 yrs
I have very often wondered what it feels like to have a cunt instead of a prick.
To be penetrated rather than to penetrate - how does that feel?
I don't know how to describe how it fees to have an external penis - a lot of the time, it's a bit of a nuisance, having to be tucked away all day, and occasionally getting "interested" at inappropriate times (when you're a teenager, that's a lot of the time!).
But, when it comes to fucking, it definitely feels good - I don't think there's much I'd give up the feel of a good oral fucking for, for example.
Ta,
SnowdropExplodes

10 Sep 06, 2:08 AM
attica
UK, 5 yrs An interesting answer, thanks, Prune.
Either my question was too obvious or too difficult.
What I want to know is the differnce beteen men and women: how it feels, what effect it has on the psyche/being for the cock to be so obviously visible, whilst the cunt is so concealed.
I think my comment about pee-ing was a red herring.
And how it feels to be inside a person. Inside them.
don't shake if you don't want spice
Edited 10 Sep 06, 2:21 AM by attica

10 Sep 06, 2:18 AM
Prunesquallor
UK, 3 yrs Well, as the previous poster, the visibility can, at times, be a great embarrassment, especially when you are younger and boiling over with hormones. I always remember my acute embarrassment when walking out with my girlfriend, because as soon as I put my arm round her, the front of my trousers would start to tent. And bus journeys could be frightfully embarrassing at times, especially when you were approaching the stop where you had to get off; it was a case of thinking of the least erotic thing you could in an effort to get the thing to go down before you had to stand up.
But in other circumstances it is good for your excitement to be visible. It's unambiguous and clear. It's how you feel. It can even be embarrassing but good at the same time, as, for instance, if you are dancing with someone who attracts you greatly. You might not wish them to know how attractive you find them, but your body signals it without restraint. Not always a bad thing.
Not sure this is what you were thinking of.
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10 Sep 06, 2:23 AM
attica
UK, 5 yrs ahm, thanks, that partly answers.
Perhaps there is no single definite answer
don't shake if you don't want spice

10 Sep 06, 6:42 AM
DillyTante
UK, 3 yrs

attica wrote:
Perhaps there is no single definite answer
Blimey! What an interesting question. It's snagged me, far too early in the morning. How can there be a definite answer? My interim conclusion, is that no one, especially me, should be focusing quite so hard on genitals at this hour, for the purpose of analysis only
To get a clear idea, perhaps first you'd need to detach from all influences, engendered by society and culture? To do that though, you'd need to know for sure, that such cultural mores, were not influenced by genitals in the first place.
In general, our genitals are part of an overall gender package, which includes hormones. Which also affect the way we think and behave. I'm not sure you can detach the influence of genitals on thinking, from the overall influence of gender on the same.
Argh. I can't do it. It's too hard. I give up. My few brain cells are frying with this one.
How about you ask a question about Quantum Mechanics, instead?
Dilly

10 Sep 06, 10:42 PM
attica
UK, 5 yrs Hi Miss Rutherford!
There can't be a definite answer, and I posed the question in the absence of anything more ... immediately available!
Just, it seems to me, that the differences in bodies, quite apart from hormones, must make a difference to the mind. It'd be hard to put a finger on (!!) because we're so used to it. No doubt someone somewhere has written a PhD on it ...
don't shake if you don't want spice

11 Sep 06, 8:13 AM
DillyTante
UK, 3 yrs

attica wrote:
There can't be a definite answer, and I posed the question in the absence of anything more ... immediately available!
Um. In future, could you please incorporate a warning for those like me (alright, just me), whose brains will seize upon such a question and eventually, implode

Just, it seems to me, that the differences in bodies, quite apart from hormones, must make a difference to the mind. It'd be hard to put a finger on (!!) because we're so used to it. No doubt someone somewhere has written a PhD on it ...
No doubt. And no argument from me either, on the issue itself. I've personal anecodotal evidence, to support your thoughts on this.
All kidding aside attica, very interesting blog. Thank you.
Dilly

11 Sep 06, 12:04 PM
Prunesquallor
UK, 3 yrs It's ok Dilly - you are far ahead of me on this.
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