i'm looking for a guy around my age or maybe a little older. Sorry but i'm definitely not interested in people who are excessively outside my own age-group. Ideally someone reasonably close geographically although as i'm in London at the moment that shouldn't be too hard. Out of seven million people there must be at least one nice Dom!

Strict is good but so are the softer things. Friendship, playing about, having a laugh. At present i do require a lot of freedom and room to make up my own mind on my own life. i can't really see that changing to be honest but that's not to say i'm unwilling to give over control to the right man.

i haven't said much about me. Well i'm extremely cheeky and very bright. A bad combination i guess. i'd say i'm pretty average looking, not a supermodel but no horns either. I change between being talkative and being quiet. Everyone needs quiet time. i have a lot of interests and flip around different subjects. Perhaps too much at times, maybe i could use some help with self discipline lol. i like reading a lot and listening to music. i collect obscene sculpture and enjoy photography.

What am i looking for? Well a Dom - a real one, not a 'twue' one and not someone 'just' into spanking. i don't mean to be all supercilious about it. It's just that i am mostly focused on D/s and a relationship without that just doesn't work for me. Oh and i AM looking for a relationship, not just a one-night-stand. Hmmm what else...nice, reasonably close in age to me***, intelligent (i'm fairly bright therefore whoever wants to keep tabs on me should probably be that way too), er...all own teeth...er...er...ok i've run out. i'll just go stand in the corner now.

Please be aware that i currently live in London. So unless you are in the general area it's probably not really worth contacting me. And i'm not looking for just 'play' so it might be best to look elsewhere if you are just into casual stuff

*** i am obliged to add an explanation to this. This means that if you contact me and you are more than about ten years older than me you'll get short shrift. Don't ignore my personal preferences, it's rude. And i don't CARE if your 'other sub' is my age. Or your friends think you are 'young at heart'. The opinions of random others do not have anything to do with me. Please have some respect or i don't want to know you.

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