rawr	IC Name: youcakeordeath Joined: 25 Apr 2008 Last visit: 21 hours ago Sex/gender: Male Location: London, UK Age: 24

What brings me here..."La forza del destino"

"I think it's all random. If there is a God, his plan is very similar to someone not having a plan." (Eddie Izzard, 2009)

"If you open your mind too much, your brain will fall out." (Tim Minchin, 2006)

Hi...I'm youcakeordeath(the question mark is implied, if you get the reference you get bonus points).

You may have met me at a kink related affair in London. I frequent the U35 events, the Camden Crunch and have been spotted at a few clubs though not very often due to my lack of keenness for public play.

I've been exploring kink for nigh on three years now and while I'm not new to the culture, etiquette, flaws, faux pas, frivolity and fun I am still fairly inexperienced. I'm looking to find someone to explore the depths of perversion with, slowly and with meaning. I'm not one for casual fast fun particularly, however I never say never...oh wait.

I am a genuine, honest, open minded and curious young man with no particular agenda other than exploring the new, interesting and sexually exciting. I do feel slightly out of place sometimes, from first glance I guess I wouldn't seem like the kinky type but I don't let that discourage me from participating. I am always myself; stubborn, over -thinking and a little too trusting (sometimes to my own detriment), but never foolish.

My kinks vary and while I'm not prudish I still only share them with those I will be potentially exploring them with. I will say that I don't enjoy most aspects of pain, it doesn't sexually excite me, but it does set the dynamic and is effective punishment because I'm a whimpy, whiney bitch. My D/s status is yet to be decided though I lean heavily toward the submissive side of thing's, however I think it would be fair to call myself a fetishist. I'm not the stereotypical sub. I am assertive, independent, unafraid to voice my opinion and cheeky with a nervous smile which often gets me into trouble. I am easily offended, sensitive and take things to heart and often worry too much how other people view me.

I have met some lovely people along my journey so far, some of which I can call good friends, all of which have been helpful, encouraging and supportive in every sense. Something I'd love to offer to anyone new and unsure of the scene.

This is me, get to know me and you won't be disappointed, I'm bloody lovely

Oh and cake or death?

MSN ID:subsequentlyyours@hotmail.co.uk   Eye colour: Brown   Hair colour: Dark Brown   Height: 5ft 7in   Weight: 12st 10lb   BMI: 27.7  

This profile was last updated on 23 Dec 11, 2:05 AM.

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