DISLIKES:

• Kids - Selfishness - Chilli - Jazz - Keeping still - Hurtful liars - Egotists - Blues - Feeling miserable - Pain - Rain - Damp weather - Oysters - Fakes - Attention seekers - Gin - Fighting - Bullies - Spiders - Moths - Cleaning - Cheats - Princesses - profiles - Balloons

I'm my own worst crytic but I do like my eyes and they usually say far more than my mouth ever could. I love eye contact especially with someone I fancy.

I do not suffer good health due to skeletol arthritis (hereditary) that means every joint is affected. I also have back problems from a car accident in '78. You'd never realise this of course unless I told you or you saw me on a bad day which is unlikely as I tend to hide myself away at home feeling sorry for myself on those occasions. When I feel ok though I'm usually out and about doing as much as I can where and when I can and suffer the consequences afterwards. As a result of this I'm unable to work unfortunately.

I love animals and have a big softie rescue tom cat who I adore.

I am a woman first and foremost and like to be treated as such. I love to be loved and love to love in return.

I'm an hopeless romantic and love all the hearts and flowers stuff.

I hate being called hun.

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ME AND BDSM:

I've been in to this BDSM thing for almost 8yrs now, have been to many clubs over the years and am a regular at the Croydon Munch, Putney Munch and the London Munch.

I've been a House Mistress at L'amour and Hades.

I'm a Sensual Dominant, I love tie n tease and tickle torture. I do have a sadistic side to me too, enjoy bruising and making someone bleed, the more they wince and yelp the more I'll laugh.

You will never hear me shout orders out if I use my voice during play at all it will be a whisper in your ear. I tend to use my eyes to do my talking and do like eye contact at all times.

Always happy to guide any newbies along the way, introducing them to munches, clubs and the people until they find their feet. However I will only do this with anyone I have first met at a munch or club.

I will not meet anyone for the first time prior to a munch or club, at the venue itself yes but not beforehand.

I have met a lot of people over the years and am very honoured to say that many have become very good friends of mine.

LIKES:

• Tie n Tease - Tickle Torture - Eye Contact - Canes - Floggers - Steel Claw - Paddles - Tawse - Chains - Clingfilm - Nipple Torture - CBT - Hair pulling/play - Face slapping - Light Breath control - D/s relationship - Sensory play - Blindfolds - Candle wax - Ice - Feathers - Foot worship - Massage - Spanking - Knife play - Biting

DISLIKES:

• Needle play - Scat - Watersports - Forced feminisation - Roleplay - Timewasting fantasists - Shouting - Blanket memos/emails

Not keen on rope bondage, can see it looks good and do have the urge to do a little from time to time.

Would like to get in to electrics and single tails.

Btw these are my personal likes and dislikes not a general dislike of these activities or those who choose to do them.

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Are you still here, well done, anyway that is a little insight in to me, the things I like and dislike and what I'm looking for.

Profiles at the end of the day are just words on a screen, I'm more a fan of getting to know someone in the flesh.

I'm sure I'll be adding more as time goes by but for now thank you for reading and look forward to you saying hello sometime, somewhere.

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One of Freddies last songs before he died has words I find real and moving:-

I don't want to sleep with you I don't need the passion too I don't want a stormy affair To make me feel my life is heading somewhere All I want is the comfort and care Just to know that my woman gives me sweet - Mother Love

I've walked too long in this lonely lane I've had enough of this same old game I'm a man of the world and they say that I'm strong But my heart is heavy, and my hope is gone

Out in the city, in the cold world outside I don't want pity, just a safe place to hide Mama please, let me back inside

I don't want to make no waves But you can give me all the love that I crave I can't take it if you see me cry I long for peace before I die All I want is to know that you're there You're gonna give me all that sweet - Mother Love

My body's aching, but I can't sleep My dreams are all the company I keep Got such a feeling as the sun goes down I'm coming home to my sweet - Mother Love