**~~ The next Norwich Munch will be on Saturday 20th December from 8 pm~~**

What I am

• I am a 35 year old callipygous female, who has discovered her kinky side.
• In real life I work in an office, and do most of the things a single woman in her 30s does. I drink socially, I smoke unsociably.
• I can be a bag of contradictions in my tastes- but who said women had to be logical. I read voraciously. Fantasy, Crime novels, Pratchett. I like most types of music, but it is not a passion. There are a few that I prefer- I'm an eighties child at heart, I guess. I enjoy crime drama on TV, one of my favourite films is the Sound Of Music but I like thrillers, action movies and usually detest rom coms.
• I've also been told I am stubbornly independent. Do I want a relationship? Maybe- but right now I am not looking for a 24/7 situation.

My kink

• I'm a bit of an exhibitionist... I LOVE dressing up. I LOVE fetish clothes - especially the shoes. And I don't mind playing in public. I haven't been able to venture out on the *scene* as often as I would like but the times I have been to clubs I have enjoyed it and would like to continue doing so.
• I'm fairly active in the local scene and a regular at the Norwich and Cambridge munches. I can understand peoples reasons for not wanting to be on the scene, but you will need to accept that it is something I like and enjoy. I co-run the Norwich Munch

What I want

• I'm here mostly to make friends with other people interested in the kinky side of life. I'm usually pretty friendly, though I've been having a bit of a rough time of it of late. If you want to say hi, drop me a line.
• In a relationship, I want a man who dominates me, both mentally and physically. I want someone that challenges me, in lots of ways.
• I'm NOT going to add you to MSN or yahoo after a few memos have been exchanged.. Sorry, but its my prerogative.

what I will be like when I am old!

Jenny Joseph wrote: Warning When I am an old woman I shall wear purple With a red hat which doesn't go, and doesn't suit me. And I shall spend my pension on brandy and summer gloves And satin sandals, and say we've no money for butter. I shall sit down on the pavement when I'm tired And gobble up samples in shops and press alarm bells And run my stick along the public railings And make up for the sobriety of my youth. I shall go out in my slippers in the rain And pick flowers in other people's gardens And learn to spit. But now we must have clothes that keep us dry And pay our rent and not swear in the street And set a good example for the children. We must have friends to dinner and read the papers. But maybe I ought to practice a little now? So people who know me are not too shocked and surprised When suddenly I am old, and start to wear purple.

• The list below is not a shopping list. It is an indication of interests, things I have tried and enjoyed and things I may be interested in.

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