Anticipation can be so intense

IC Name: vis_a_vis6969 Joined: 1 Oct 2009 Last visit: 45 hours ago Sex/gender: Male Location: Cambridge, Herts, UK Age: 27 Website: http://fetlife.com...

First and foremost, the proper way to say hello!

10.7.10

Hello

For the purposes of IC, my name is Vis. You'll have to find me in person to get my real name. I'm 25 and I live in Cambridge. I work in Hertfordshire and regularly pop into London for the evening. I consider myself a friendly and sociable guy. I like to take on a challenge, love to be spontaneous and always remain outgoing & relaxed. I rarely get phased, annoyed or negative, everything is simply an opportunity for the future (can you tell I'm fairly optimistic)? I drive but do not have my own place at the moment, living with friends in a houseshare for now but looking to make my own (hopefully fet friendly) house share when I get my own place later in the year.

I'm on IC for a couple of reasons. First and foremost to make friendships in the scene by finding, attending and becoming a regular at a variety of clubs/munches. I'd love to get some more kinksters on my friendship radar, whether that be male or female, sub or domme. People to meet up with, chat at munches, share stories and just enjoy a bit of gossip. Secondly, I'm looking for play partners and photo's. I'm a sub guy and I'd love to be held at the mercy of a female kinkster. Whether it's a one off, for an entire evening, just an opportune moment, long term play partners, every now and again or simply for companionship at a club, I'll be game. For photography opportunities, I'm happy to consider being rigged up by a Dom. Thirdly, I am ultimately looking for a relationship. I'd love to find someone in the scene to save myself the job of corrupting a 'nilla as I don't want to give this lifestyle up. It's too much of a desire to play kinky - hence I'm looking. I'm realistic too, it'll be quite unlikely to meet a life partner especially on IC, but hey I'm sure she's out here somewhere. The special person will need to be completely real/genuine first and foremost, though with a big sense of discretion in public. Being outgoing and sociable in the vanilla world is important too. I could be up for lifestyle but I won't put my current vanilla life/friends at risk - they all mean so much to me and I'm so happy to have such a strong group that really did turn me around a while back. Broadening, maintaining and stregthening my friendships (kink and vanilla ones) are important.

My kinky likes include (but most certainly are not limited to) Bondage, Restraint, Teasing, Pleasing, Spanking, Sensation, Ropes and the ultimate kidnap fantasy. I like to struggle and test the bonds as opposed to becoming lifeless putty in your hand - though more than happy to keep still when about to be roped up :D. I'd love to have some more photographs of me subbing. My kinky dislikes include the usuals, along with permanent visible marking. I didn't really know where to put punishments, I mean nobody really likes punishment do they? Well at least we're not supposed to! Chastity and cross dressing have never done much for me. A fuller list of interests is on my FetLife profile. I love to try new things and experiment/be at complete mercy of sadism and cruel evilness. I'm a sub for sure but think I could switch as a one off or two if that floats your boat.

My other interests include travelling. In the last two/three years I've been on plenty of city breaks to Barcelona, Manchester, Milan, Istanbul, Prague, Bath, Seville, Paris, London, Algarve and Frankfurt. Madrid and Rome will be next I think. I've also developed a keen interest in surfing, started in Summer 09 and not getting too bad now. I like to keep myself busy and am not one to spend every single evening stuck in the house alone. Enjoy pubs and bars regularly, clubs when I can and I like to both cook and eat out respectively.

That's your insight into one angle of my life. Hope you enjoyed it, I'd love to hear your comments and feedback regarding my words, alongwith those of you that might feel a potential match. Memo me on here or preferably email me or add me to MSN or Yahoo via vis_a_vis6969@yahoo.co.uk. You can also find me on the sites below.

Be well, take care and stay kinky,

Vis

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My Sex Map

Click here to see my likes and desires in the land of kink....

Links to my other profiles

• Fet Life
• Twitter Feed NB: Kinky content
• Facebook NB: Not really kinky but completely private and very safe for everyone (Feel free to see how much you can see as a non-friend )
• Collar Me - Intense original profile, very long, regular blog updates. **Profile issues at the moment, may not show up for you, seems to have been deleted for some reason..**

Not my favourite, but still have them

• ALT.com
• AFF.com

4.6.10

I'm really keen to start making it down to London to meet some new friends and attend some of your events. I'm in the middle of a busy few weeks at the moment, with job interviews, surfing trip, week in Istanbul and a weekend of camping for me to work through but I'll be free soon enough.

I'd love to get some pointers and directions from any of the London folk. Please get in touch with advice, friendship or for drinks

Vis x

18.4.10

So here I am, at last, on IC with a profile and looking to find some friendly kinksters from round about. I live in central Cambridge, work in Herts and pop into London every now and again.

If I'm honest, I'm still not sure what I like. I enjoy bondage and restraints A LOT but also, so I'm told, take quite a lot of pain well. I definitely class myself as a sub though in the past I have switched a little to liven up an evening. I guess I wasn't secured too well when I try to struggle and play-rebel

I plan to become a regular at Oblivion and the Cambridge Munch, hopefully a few other places too.

I don't want to ramble much but my CM profile on the link below has my original typing/essay about stuff. Profile name there is visavis6969.

I can also be found on Fetlife (more often) and Alt occasionally (under vis_a_vis6969)

Be well and speak soon,

Vis xx

2.10.09

Just finding my feet for now, will be in touch, have given you a couple of pics, please say hello

4.9.09

My original musings as I first entered the online scene can still be found on my Collar Me profile (link above)

Yahoo messenger:vis_a_vis6969   MSN ID:use_my_yahoo_address_for_msn   Eye colour: Blue   Hair colour: Blonde   Height: 6ft   Weight: 10st 2lb   BMI: 19.1  

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