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IC : Profiles : verte
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Profile:verte
Created on:6 Jan 2004
Last visit:6 hours ago
Country:UK
Location:Hackney, London
Sex/gender:Female
Email:la.verte@gmail.com
MSN ID:I don't do IMing. Don't ask.
Homepage:http://sm-feminist...
Age:25
Hair colour:reddish
Eye colour:bluish
Weight:9st 10lb
Height:5ft 4in
BMI:23.2

Currently....

... I'd particularly like to meet a hot, smart, funny boy I can tease and torture. If you're fond of piss and you switch, even better: altogether I'm more bottom than top. I'm all too aware that the kind of people I like are few and far between on this site. But it's worth a shot, right?

Not looking for a 24/7 D/s relationship, a Master, a slave or anything BDSM-by-textbook. Despite being in an open relationship I find I have little interest in casual sex and play (I can generally have more fun on my own...), so it's highly unlikely you'll get into my bed unless you've got under my skin. I'm not looking for high romance and happily ever afters, but close friends I share that rare frisson of chemistry with who also happen to value me highly as a sexual partner.

My lovers tend to be:

  • very smart, perceptive, cutting, mean and disdainful of humans. But adoring of me, obviously...
  • obsessed with the right music, books and big ideas
  • shameless: willing to give me a black eye, nail me in an filthy alley etc. And/or willing to let me do much the same to them...
  • inspiring: people who push me sexually, intellectually and emotionally; muses.
  • in possession of the ability to make me laugh so hard I spit coffee all over myself. And won't think it's awful when I do.

And you should probably know how I feel about love...

... and that I'm utterly besotted with the delicious, beautiful, brilliant Thomasson, my long-term partner in all the crimes of love. We make a good team.

But! We're both far too flirtatious, filthy and hungry for adventure to be monogamous, and that suits both of us just fine.

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Someone once said: "She's a good, clever girl, but she can't stop flashing her knickers."

I can be a tough cookie, but I'm also tender-hearted and fiercely loyal, a tad over-loquacious, occasionally awkward and bookish, and I tend to foolhardily follow my heart (and loins...) wherever it leads, which sometimes lends itself to disaster. I'm generically rebellious. I don't go for easy options. A bit of a closed book in general and I can be a bit intolerant of idiots, but if I let you in even a smidgen you can probably assume I think you're pretty great.

Particularly keen on the following:

-- breathplay (waterboarding, strangling); sodomy (of all kinds...); knives; blood; playing with force; scary sex; weaponless, gratuitous violence; being exhibited; rope; being backed into intellectual corners; degradation; piss; being reduced to a sobbing, sodden mess.

An assortment of other things I love:

-- sublimity through the visceral; jouissance; deep, dark coffee; performing; ruby red lipstick; libraries; cynical idealists; a room of one's own; queer politics; everything Nick Cave; livejournal; fully fashioned seamed stockings; psychedelics; eye contact like fire; Gorecki's Symphony no. 3; lone London outings; live art; being a secret hippy; vicious tenderness; wrong humour; comics; unexpected intimacy; Gilles Deleuze; Berlin; Godspeed You! Black Emperor; my extraordinary friends; everything Chris Morris (the modern day de Sade!); performativity; writingwritingwriting; black-hearted loving; playing Bach on the piano; rioja; Judith Butler; last.fm/; My Bloody Valentine; Dorothy Parker; proper indie discos (if they play Kaiser Chiefs, it doesn't count); pebble beaches in winter; Throbbing Gristle; being sharp and blunt; Joanna Newsom; you made me realise.

Fuck right off:

gender stereotyping; the pseudoword "feminazi"; totally unironic hipster irony; willful ignorance; post-feminism; Horne and Corden; the fact that I'd still have Matthew Horne's arse; electro-house, 'funky' house, HOUSEHOUSEHOUSE; the idea held by many that skinny jeans + dull, commercial guitar choons = Important Alternative Music; being my own hideous cliché.

If you're smart and funny, have ever looked at some bookish-looking geek across a room or on a train and wondered wistfully whether beneath that veneer hides a libidinous, filthy slut, I might like to hear from you.

Though the fact that I mostly read and write about sexuality is a bit of a giveaway...

(Please read the cautions on About Personal Ads before responding to an advert. In particular, "Flat 51, 17 Holywell Hill, St Albans, AL1 1DT" is a mailbox address used by a persistant scam artist.)

 
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