Having had the same profile for the past couple of years, I decided it was time for an update of who I am and what I am looking for. So here goes...

Sexually I am submissive. In my normal day-to-day life I am intelligent, assertive, out-going and fun loving. I am happy with my life and comfortable with who I am. I enjoy socialising, cinema, gigs, music, dancing, reading, art, swimming, eating out, dressing up and chilling out in my PJ's in front of a good film among many other things. However for me, relinquishing control to another is what I love most of all and ultimately my pleasure derives from Yours.

I don't need 24/7 control but I want to be in a relationship where I am submissive and he is my Dominant. Where that dynamic constantly exists even if we are having a "normal" conversation, all it would take is a look or a change in tone and I know that he wants me kneeling at his feet or worshiping his cock or whatever else is required at that moment in time. And I don't hesitate but to do it. Because doing what he wants makes me happiest. I don't want it to be easy either. I want to be pushed, i want to do things that I never thought i was capable of but feel safe and know i'm not being judged while I do it. I want someone who occupies my thoughts and makes my heart beat faster. Someone who is a little bit of a challenge and leaves me wanting more. But also leaves me guessing. Someone who can surprise me. We will trust and respect each other.

Yes I do like to be used roughly and shown what a dirty little slut I can be. But I also want to know that while that is happening I am cared for. I don't get off on being beaten black and blue so although I know there is a time and place for being whiped, caned or flogged and how erotic it can be, He needs to be creative with his punishments and follow through with them no matter how hard i beg. You may expect the occasional "power struggle" as I might not always be obedient. I do not mean that as a challenge but sometimes I might try to push your limits to see how hard you will really go and if you're actually capable of pushing me to and beyond my limits.

Physical attraction is important to begin but I am only interested in someone who I find appealing at a deeper level. I want you to be able to stimulate my mind as well as my body. However my submission is earned and I will not submit to you the instant you make contact. Also age is an issue for me, I have had a couple of expereinces with older men but it isn't what I'm looking for right now. I'm only 22 so unless you're exceptional I'm not really looking to meet anyone over about 35.

I have tried quite a lot of the things in the list below (but not all) and I am looking to push my limits and expand upon my experiences. Therefore I am looking for regular meets with one person and you should be looking for the same. I am not interested in meaningless one offs or to be one of a collection of subs/slaves. I am also not looking for married men or anyone in a LTR where their parter has no involvemnet/knowledge of your favourite pass-time.

I have had a few encounters with girls in the past, which have been lots of fun and I would be willing to experiment more with the right person. I am also interested in talking to Dommes/Mistresses as it's something I have been thinking about recently but would like to begin slowly so it'd be great to hear from you too.

If you'd like to know anything else, please get in contact with me. Facial pics can be exchanged for the same in return. Thanks for taking the time to read!