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IC Name: unsentimental Joined: 24 May 2008 Last visit: 2 days ago Sex/gender: Male Location: Edinburgh, UK Age: 32

I'm never sure whether this space should be used to indicate that I am in search of anything or not. Honestly, I seem to date in a very vanilla, serial monogamist kind of way. I don't seem to have the knack or mindset to seek out the kind of encounters or multiple partners that many of you fine people get up to. That's not to say that I object to the idea (or that I would automatically say no if you offered); I just don't seem to be wired that way.

I'm also aware that men of no great social confidence or obviously dazzling charm are two a penny in BDSM. This is not indicative of self-esteem issues; my self-esteem is fine, but I know what I'm not. I find it hard to take seriously the possibility that using this as a personal ad will actually work, so I tend not to.

Nevertheless, this is me:

I'm a switch, and I love being one; I really wouldn't want to go through life playing just one role. I like to play around with this wonderful little world with as much variety as possible. I like playing with both sensation and minds. While I find the D/s dynamics very sexy, I have no wish to be in a long-term relationship which is not marked by being as close to an equal one as possible. This is quite important to me, even without reference to kink.

I make high-pitched girlish squeaks when hit or tickled. It may be my best feature.

The more general "me" has many eclectic interests (I'd count kink as one of them). The outdoors, politics and current events, music, sci-fi and gaming. I'm currently doing a PhD in infectious diseases. I'm a bit of a geek, although in some ways I don't like that label; I'm a lot of a cynic.

Eye colour: Grey   Hair colour: Brown   Height: 5ft 8in  

This profile was last updated on 31 Oct 11, 9:15 PM.

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