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IC Name: unruly_boy Joined: 13 Apr 2007 Last visit: 5 days ago Sex/gender: Male Location: London, UK Age: 29

Oh, hullo! Fancy seeing you here. It's a good job you didn't swing by a couple of minutes ago or you would have caught me... well... maybe I'll track down my peeping tom neighbour and see if he got any photos I could post up here.

Well anyway, enough of that. You want to know about me? Let me tell you about me.

I'm a nice boy with an unruly streak and a dirty mind. I'm still discovering just what it is that I want; I'm guessing rather than one thing it might be several little, independent islands of things: random play, a long term relationship, solid friendships and all those other life and work things that most people want. I'm heading towards the end of my 20s and I'm a cliche, at least in that regard, but I can live with that, so I'm currently rowing around my little archipelago of desire trying to look after my interests in each place, manage diplomatic relations and not exhaust myself.

Incase me getting carried away with that metaphor has left things a whole lot murkier, I should say that I am in a long term relationship. On a site like this relationship status can get confusing, but essentially we're up for play and parties and random adventures, so long as it's a shared experience. We're not polyamorous, but we're most certainly not monogamous either. If you want the ins and out and the backs and fronts of it you should ask.

So what's different about me? Well, you may have noticed a penchant for the playful and occasionally ridiculous. I have a bunch of dorky interests, many of which I am reluctant to admit to anyone but my good friends. I'm a bisexual boy who enjoys playing with gender. I have a whole stack of fetishes. I enjoy self-bondage and think masturbation deserves as much attention as sex (it's not a poor substitute, it's a different beast). I enjoy taking people in hand as much as I enjoy being taken in hand, though I tend to end up doing more of the former than the latter. Being in a sexualised environment tends to make me happy for days after. I'm a bit of a lone wolf, which has its ups and its downs, and I'm an arty type, but with a glorious geek streak.

Okay, that's enough for now. Some of this stuff might be out of date by the time you read it, in which case I really should get round to changing it. Otherwise, there it is, that's me for you.

If you want to memo me, please do. I can be quite slow to respond sometimes and, like pretty much everyone else, don't respond well to one liners unless it's just a perfunctory thing, in which case do keep it short. Oh, hell, just do what you do; I'll do what I do and we'll see how it works out.

Eye colour: Hazel   Hair colour: Dark Brown   Height: 5ft 11in   Weight: 11st   BMI: 21.3  

This profile was last updated on 1 Feb 12, 9:03 PM.

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