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IC Name: undercover_hippie Joined: 1 Aug 2008 Last visit: 36 days ago Sex/gender: Male Location: London, UK Age: 34

I'm the partner of Tihkal, we're a kinky couple in a long-term emotionally monogamous relationship who've recently been reintroduced to the scene through the incredibly lovely miss_micro.

I like to think I'm intelligent, liberal, fairly easy-going, and curious about a wide range of stuff. I know enough about most things to hold up my end of a conversation, but without actually being an expert in anything. That may say something about my attention span.

The Kinky Bit

We're not 24/7, we don't have consistent roles, and we largely call each other by our real names. Basically, I wouldn't say we live there, but we do have a timeshare...

To get some labels out of the way, I'm a bottom (mostly), top (sometimes), sub (occasionally), dom (rarely), masochist (definitely) and sadist (probably). I'm glad I cleared that up

I'm an equal opportunity flirt. I wouldn't classify myself as bi, but I subscribe to an analogue model of sexuality anyway. Although I've done very little playing with men the idea intrigues me, cos it pushes a lot of my bottomy buttons. However, this isn't a personal ad. If I don't know you and feel comfortable with you then I'm not interested.

As the above implies, thus far we've mainly been playing with each other, but now we've met so many interesting and alluring people this has the potential to change.

Things I Like

Cross-dressing - Girls get all the best clothes, shoes and make-up. In my opinion that's incredibly unfair, and I encourage them to share. I'm not trying to pass as anything, I'm just a bloke in a skirt.

Clothes - There's not a lot of Laura Ashley in my wardrobe. Leather/latex/PVC, corsets, heels, boots, both on me and others. The list is long and Goth.

Bondage – I really like being tied up. Strenuously and inescapably tied up. Not particularly into metal, because I like a feeling of compression, but well applied ropes make me melt. Plus my arms are surprisingly flexible, my elbows will touch with a little encouragement, and if I really need to I can manage a reverse-prayer. When it comes to applying the ropes, I admit I need a bit more practice...

Gags – Mmmmm… gags. I love the way they look and feel, especially ballgags. Mewing, whimpering and drooling are all to be encouraged.

Physical domination - Pull my hair, grab my wrists, push/pull me around. Please?

Non-Kink Stuff

I like good books, good music, good films, good comics, dark art, board games, poker, sunsets, Glastonbury Festival, and late night conversations that seem important at the time. If you're someone I've met or we have mutual friends then feel free to say hi, I'm working on this network thing...

Eye colour: Blue   Hair colour: Dark   Height: 5ft 8in   Weight: 9st 10lb   BMI: 20.5  

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