...i'm not talking about "ooh please boss me around because it makes me wet down there", I'm talking about wanting to connect with someone on a moral, spiritual and emotional level and as part of that, becoming closely connected to someone in a way that would make me want to go above and beyond to make them happy in general aspects of their day to day life, not just in the bedroom

Don't let my stats fool you into thinking that, because I'm a young female submissive, I'm also an easy shag as part of that. It may suprise you to know that I view penetrative male/female sex as a reproductive necessity only. My strong foundational beliefs in regard to this are not negotiable. If this is a problem please move on to the next profile. If this provokes you to ask questions then be my guest, but they must be intelligent questions only please.

I am physically unable to meet men on a one to one basis...my legs will simply not take me out of the front door to put myself in any potential danger. On that basis, munch based meets only please. Again, this is a non negotiable sentiment of my profile

Righty ho then...so what am I looking for?

well, I'm not in the mood for rushing into anything but somewhere, along the path that the man is laying down for me, I would passionately love to find a Dom/me who is also my partner and close friend. In a recent thread about dream Dom/mes, I said that my Dream Dom/me would be made up of the following ingredients:

Dream Dom/me is someone who:

*Takes an active interest in the scene but not to a political extent

*Values the mental side of D/s as highly (perhaps more so) than the notion of play itself

*Be very keen on monogamy

*Not have subby/switchy tendancies

*Have sex at the bottom of their priority list even though sexual play is sometimes used

*Be well educated and focussed and be good at thinking rationally yet outside the box

*Be charming and caring in a way that makes me feel special but not patronised

social life

A lot of my closest friends are people I've met on the scene. I value friendship very highly and am not just on the scene for play and to meet prospective partners. I am just as interested in talking to people I meet on the scene about anything and everything as I am talking to them about bdsm specifically

In summary

I'm just riding the wave and seeing what happens. I enjoy the bdsm scene massively but I don't plan on suffering any more fools. So yeah, take my sincerity seriously but also know at the end of the day I still want to have fun and don't have the energy to treat everything as the holy grail

Hope that all made sense.

I hope dear reader, you are pleased to observe that I've used no lables to describe myself here. I am far more interested in my profile attracting attention because of what I say rather than because of the sexual and bdsm based lables that I have decided to apply to myself for the purpose of profile writing

Thanks for reading

Laura xx