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IC : Profiles : totallycoverme
| Profile: | totallycoverme |
| Created on: | 19 Oct 2007 |
| Last visit: | 6 hours ago |
| Country: | UK |
| Location: | Manchester |
| Sex/gender: | Female |
| Age: | 21 |
| Hair colour: | Brown |
| Eye colour: | Blue |
| Weight: | 12st 2lb |
| Height: | 5ft 6in |
| BMI: | 27.2 |
| Sex/gender seeking: | Male or Female or FtoM | | Ad title: | Can't go nilla! Won't go nilla! |
| Ad updated: | 4 days ago |
My Goal: A D/s relationship where S&M plays an important role in the D/s side of things... Welcome To My World
Hi there 
Thanks for stopping by to take a look at my profile. Tis a long and very specific profile but hey, I've been actively involved in bdsm for nearly two years now so I figured that I should put what I've learnt so far to good use.
Firstly, I would like to share with you the very words that were written on the very first profile I wrote on IC back when I joined in October 2007:
| “Good day to you, I am new to this but passionate about submitting to a Master/Mistress. Of course I have limits but my main aim is to please the right Master/Mistress. No task is too small, I am very open minded and would be so honoured at the privilege of being asked to serve under the power of the right person. For me, I am excited by the psychological side of bdsm just as much as the physical side of it. Therefore I wish to be more than a "fuck buddy" for someone and more of a slave who will worship and honour my owners very being as my ultimate ruler. But essentially, this isn't about me, it's about you and what you want. I adore strictness and kindness within reason, so please do contact me if you're keen to have me as a blank canvas to work on and mould me in the shape of your image of what you believe a true slave should be. No amount of humiliation is too much for me.” |
I still hold that dream and ideology very close to my heart and it still reflects what I ultimately desire. However, I guess it does portray a sense of naivety as well, which is why the rest of my profile talks more about the meatier aspects of who I am, what I seek and what I aspire to. This is who I am and what I'm about
*Bdsm is a massive passion of mine. I am not a complete train spotter on the subject, I have plenty of nilla hobbies and interests that keep me just as occupied. However, bdsm is such a strong interest that I do like to engage with people who relate to it in a similar way to myself.
*I value my friendships very highly. Ideally, I find I am able to get closer to someone if we have more than the common interest of bdsm going on.
*I am at my best when surrounded by people with positive energy.
*I enjoy days out, learning new things, meeting people, spending quality time with my friends.
*My nilla hobbies are mostly all in the lexicon of being creative and interactive. You will find these out once we get talking.
*I am a high energy person with high expectations of the people I get close to. I think this is a good thing as I know I have a lot to offer.
*I am honest. I can't relate to people who aren't honest and I have no time for them whatsoever.
*I like the scene in terms of how it is a great way to meet like minded people who I can relate to. Things about the scene that I view less favourably is the idea that there is such a thing as a hierarchy, people who don't take young women seriously and view them as easy shag/play/trophy fodder and boisterous people who think that they have the God given right to respond to others as if they are inferior. What I seek: A D/s relationship where S&M plays an important role in the D/s side of things
I don't really enjoy casual play anymore. There was a time when I used to embrace it with much enthusiasm but quite some time ago I arrived at the point where I want something more progressive and meaningful and I'm not afraid to wait for it. Bdsm doesn't define my life and who I am and as part of that, I don't need to practice it just as a single vanilla person might not need to peruse casual sex. I do hope that makes sense. As a result, I shall talk about how I seek to function in the context of S&M and then in the context of D/s. I believe that the two things compliment each other so I hold them in equal regard. The S&M stuff:
*I am submissive only.
*I am potentially attracted to people of all ages. I am just as attracted to older people who bring a wealth of experience with them as I am to people closer to my own age.
*My IC name, totallycoverme, is derived from an initial fetish of mine that was very strong when I first got into bdsm. I am of course talking about WAM (Wet And Messy) aka Sploshing (although I do prefer the term WAM, not sure why but yeah). Strangely, after trying a whole host of other things, I don't crave WAM to a greater extent than a lot of other stuff I enjoy so please don't be put off if you're not into WAM yourself because now it features as one of many things I enjoy.
*As long as I am submitting whilst avoiding the hard limit territories, I really don't have a particular fetish. I like the feeling of submission itself more than any particular activity that may be used as part of my submission.
*I am very interested in the emotional aspects of my submission. I like to feel scared (albeit in a safe context), used, abused, degraded and humiliated (I cringed a bit when I wrote that…I guess that relates to how I find it humiliating to admit that I am enjoying something that I probably shouldn't). I also like to be called horrible names. After all this, I like to be held and soothed as I recover, knowing that I am cared for and looked after. As a result of all this, if I had to use labels, I would say that I would substantially prefer a caring sadist. The D/s stuff:
*I am most attracted to people who are: optimistic, tolerant, patient, kind, outgoing, confident, intellectually stimulating to converse with, have a good sense of humour and are passionate about what they believe in but not pushy with it.
*I like romance. I bet most people do but I'm talking about the really intense stuff with a bit of a sadistic kick. For example, preparing a candle lit dinner for you to enjoy whilst I kneel by your feet only being fed tit bits from your plate. Or being made to endure something to illustrate how I feel about you…that sort of thing.
*My ideal partner would be someone who enjoyed bdsm on the same level as myself. I love the thought of going weak at the knees for someone who has strong urges to be very sadistic to me at substantially regular intervals.
*I would prefer to be with someone who enjoys going out with me in a social context, whether that be taking me to clubs and treating me like a valued piece of property and being proud to be seen with me or anything else that gets us out and about talking to people.
*I have absolutely no preference with regards to which gender I get involved with.
*I have no strong preference with regards to age. Ideally I prefer people older than me but the upper limit for me would rest somewhere around the point of mid 40s
*The idea of polyamory and/or an open relationship doesn't appeal to me on any level. I admire people who carry these things off successfully but I'm pretty sure that monogamy is the way forward for me.
*It is important for me to be with someone who doesn't have a strong preference regarding what size I am. I am very happy with my current size but it is a topic that I can be potentially sensitive about. Thus my ideal partner would still find me attractive whether I was big, small or anything in between.
*My ideal Dominant would be more nurturing than demanding in how any rules set would support me reaching my full potential rather than conflicting with it. So there you have it…
I do hope you enjoyed reading my profile and if you've got this far then I thank you for taking the time to do so. I look forward to hearing from you,
Laura xx
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