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IC Name: tokyoyearzero Joined: 2 Feb 2008 Last visit: 4 hours ago Sex/gender: Male Location: North London, UK Age: 37

I'm warm, intelligent, creative and imaginative - a mid thirties thinker with a mischievous yet serious side. Hedonistic soul. Creative, vibrant, laid back, quirky yet grounded, passionate.

Culture wise, I like:

Music: PJ Harvey, Sonic Youth, Eels, The Fall, early R.E.M., Pavement, Arcade Fire, Low, Yo La Tengo, Tindersticks, Surfjan Stevens, Bloc Party, Slint, Can, Boards of Canada, Stereolab, Calexico, Silver Jews, Tortoise, Radiohead... I could go on.

Films: Festen, Barton Fink, Traffic, Delicatessen, A Single Man, Lost in Translation, A Clockwork Orange, The Shining, Requiem for a Dream, Hard Candy, Happiness, Ghostworld, No Country For Old Men, Fight Club, Fetishes, The Last Seduction, Wings of Desire, The Sweet Hereafter, Breaking The Waves, History of Violence, Mystic River, Buffalo 66, Psycho, Secretary.. ad infinitum

Books: Venus in Furs, David Sedaris, Jon Ronson, James Frey stuff (even the made up stuff), American Psycho, all of JD Salinger's novels, love Chuck Palahniuk (especially Survivor), Kurt Vonnegurt, White Noise by Don Dellilo, The Secret History by Donna Tartt, Diceman, David Foster Wallace, On The Road, ... loads more but my library is far from my laptop right now. Just ask.

Arty Bollocks: Sam Taylor Wood, Rothko, Bill Viola, Sophie Calle

Other stuff: Shiraz, seafood risotto, The Observer, New Yorker, Obsessively following the phone hacking scandal and rubbing my hands with glee at the downfall of the Murdoch empire, Private Eye, Jamon Iberico, long road trips in Europe and Stateside, Seville, the waterways of Kerala, bagels from Brick Lane, airline food, Eggs Benedict, scrabble, HP Sauce on bacon sandwiches, backgammon.

...kink wise

I'm a naturally born submissive, which in my mind I pretty much identify as a sexual orientation. I have been this way since before I can remember.

I've had a mix of vanilla and kink-led relationships, and whilst vanilla is important I seek to be with someone who is as fundamentally hardwired as me when it comes to needing D/s to be a vital component of their intimate relationships. Someone with emotional intelligence who understands the deep mental and psychological dynamic of true D/s; someone who like me realises that this is not a game, but should touch the deepest, darkest and brightest parts of ourselves.

There are many and varied D/s activities that I enjoy, and ultimately I am seeking something approaching TPE within the right context that strikes the perfect balance between vanilla commitments and the beauty of finding a true D/s dynamic that would be unique between us, and probably us alone.

Eye colour: brown   Hair colour: brown   Height: 6ft   Weight: 14st 12lb   BMI: 28.0  

This profile was last updated on 1 Feb 12, 2:47 PM.

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