| I'm generally an S/M switch, but I'm exploring my dominant side with a nice submissive who might be the Ms. Right I used to mention in this profile. I'm still a semi-skimmed goth, though: defensively cynical, prone to wearing lots of black, and stuck in a musical time-warp somewhere around the 1990s ('cos I liked the Sisters when they produced decent music).
I'm not that big on maudlin navel-gazing, but I know about the odd emotional scar in my makeup. I enjoy intelligent conversation where big words are used correctly, but avoid periphrastic ostentatoliloquy. May possess an ironic sense of humour.
Ah, yes: I currently run the Hull munch. Drop me a line if you want any information; we meet in a Hull pub called the Polar Bear on Spring Bank West, from 2pm to 6pm on the third Saturday of each month.
The rest of my old profile is below, which lets me satisfy the curious stranger with a minimum of effort.
In leather, mostly a top: "Give yourself to me, and we shall play as long as we both wish." Can switch, but seldom does; mostly switches between top and bottom, not dom-sub. Nurtures when needed. Enjoys giving flogging, caning, genital stimulation, and sensual play. Willing to learn new techniques in order to give greater pleasure. Does not pretend to be perfect. Enjoys watching women climax repeatedly, or people deep in the throes of sensation play. May sometimes play with your fear, but mostly prefers to set people at their ease. Strictly respects safewords, limits; expects to receive honesty. Will not have fun if you are injured through being too eager to please. Amateur masseur - not strictly scene-related but sometimes useful. (This is getting to be something more like "massage slut". Form an orderly line.)
Outside the scene: loves to dance - usually freestyle. Spends too much time using computers. Reads for pleasure and knowledge. Cooks real food from time to time. Housekeeping occasionally remembered. Usually keeps plants alive.
Appearance: tall, slim, and grizzled since puberty.
Not into: scat, watersports, or blood. The first repels me, the second does nothing for me, and the third carries too many risks with a short-term partner.
No one-liner replies, please, and do not call me Master. Whoever wears my collar may call me that, and no-one else. Sadly, I am 95% straight and therefore miss out on sexual fun with boys. (Seriously, it's sad. I don't even want to think about how much sex I've missed out on because I'm hetero.) |
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