What's under the hair?

IC Name: tiggerGlasgow Joined: 5 Mar 2006 Last visit: 7 days ago Sex/gender: Female Location: Edinburgh, UK Age: 32 Website: http://www.bondage...

Right there, so you're reading my profile, that's a good start.

Firstly I'm from Glasgow, if the name didn't give it away, although I live in Edinburgh these days. Whilst I identify as submissive, I suppose some might class me as a switch in denial, but I prefer to think of myself as a submissive with an evil streak.

I need the submissive side, it's my sustenance. My evil streak is like chocolate, nice to have now and then but not really suitable or satisfying to have that as my main diet. The manifestation of this “top” streak is restricted to doing “nice” things to people I like. Be that in the form of ropes, impact play, sensation play or even needles or other fun stuff.

In terms of club play, these days you're more likely to see the evil streak rather than the submissive side. This is because, whilst I am submissive, I don't “present” as such unless I'm either in a relationship with somebody presenting as dominant, or indulging in that type of play with one of my good friends. However, volunteers to thwak me or tie me up are always appreciated as long as it's in a club or we know each other very well. I don't do casual play outside of clubs with people I don't know well. I also do not engage in casual play of a sexual nature except with people with whom I am well antiquated.

Now that that's out of the way, I should say I'm a rope person (well restraints in general but rope in particular). I'm both an enthusiastic rope bunny and an enthusiastic rigger, though I am spending a lot of time tying of late and not nearly enough time tied. In kink term the ropes stuff is sort of on a separate track from the rest of my kink as well as the rigger and the rope bunny being two very different aspects of me. The rigger is an asexual state of being, I get a mental buzz and enjoyment from it. It's the challenge, the art, the technical aspect. Once I have somebody tied it can be a different matter, but that depends on the person. The rope-bunny can be sexual or not sexual state, but it's always a sensual experience

As my first munch was on the 23rd of March 2006, I can't really class myself as new to the scene. I've met some really great people since then and been to some wonderful events. I am a big advocate of events in general and will state and re-state my arguments why munches and clubs are good things until I'm blue in the face. I respect that not everyone feels the need to go to events, just don't make disparaging remark about clubs and munches (especially if you've never been to the event your gain-saying) and expect me to leave the remark unchallenged. I also help run the Edinburgh Lunch Munch.

My list of interests is not exclusive but it is an indication of what I at least have a bit of experience of. For more info on my kinks and vanilla interests just ask me (though please don't launch straight into a conversation by asking what I've done or what do I do in the kink side of things, always gets my back up for some reason). Oh and if you're too far away to come and meet me for coffee (or tea), then you're too far away to become a playmate.

Now for the bit that most of you will skip, vanilla me:

I am bisexual. I have *very* strong views on my sexual identity and if you think that "women only go with other women to excite men" or "women only go with other women cos there's no man around to interest them", then you and I will not get on. Yes this is vanilla me, it's gender politics. Politics of all kinds is something I get passionate about (forget boring old men in suits and party lines and think instead about equality, civil liberties and the right to self-determination). I am also a feminist of the third-wave variety.

Whilst I am currently single and enjoying myself, I am not averse to being swept off of my feet, although not particularly looking to be. Primarily though I am looking for new friends and new playmates. Anything else I find is a bonus. I am also open to being party to non-monogamous relationships, provided all parties involved are aware of the situation and are happy with what is going on.

I worship the printed word and view the printing press as man's finest achievement since language itself. So much so I cry at book burning scenes in films and view Fahrenheit 451 as one of the saddest films ever made. I write compulsively and always have some project or other on the go. A geek with a love of SF, fantasy, comics, board games and the likes. Oh, and I love history, archaeology,anthropology and playing with swords.

I am very out going and “bouncy” is a term that has been applied to me on a fairly frequent basis. I would like to describe myself as intelligent, eager to learn, creative and exuberant. I would also like to think I'm easy to get along with and can adapt to most social settings. But this is my vanity talking I suppose. That said I am fabulous.

Speaking of vanity though, I have no illusions about my appearance. I know that I am gorgeous, but I also know that I'm outside of "normal" BMI range. I do not need others to tell me this. I know that being outside of the “normal” BMI range will mean that not everybody will find me attractive, I can deal with this. If my size or weight are issues for you then I suggest you move on, swiftly, and without passing comment.

Manners are important. This means I'll talk to mostly anybody and at least try to be polite, even if it is to say "thanks but no thanks". Politeness does not equal weakness or that I can be swayed from a “no thank you” by continued pressure, I try to be polite, but my second rebuffal often offends.

You can also find my profile on one or two other well frequented sites. For those of you interested the pretty pictures of me on my profile were taken by SP (whom I can't say enough nice things about even if he is "the ex").

TTFN (Ta Ta For Now)

tigger

P.S. Adding me to MSN without asking and letting me know your MSN is something I don't take kindly to.

MSN ID:tiggerglasgow@googlemail.com   Eye colour: Brown   Hair colour: Auburn   Height: 5ft 3in  

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