IC Name: tanwen Joined: 4 Nov 2002 Last visit: 20 days ago Sex/gender: Male Location: South Bucks, UK Age: 48

I have found from experience that my dark side means a pure vanilla relationship doesn't seem to be for me. I sometimes convince myself it might be... with the same inevitable consequences. I don't take kinky sex (or myself) too seriously. I'm not looking for 24/7, bullying or cruelty. Just respectful, affectionate and intelligent fun.

I started off more submissive but over the last few years I have discovered a real passion for dominating sexy submissive women. Being a benevolent dom probably suits my personality anyway. Having said that, I might still melt if I met a strong, confident attractive Domme.

I'm moderately experienced but if you're looking for someone with years and years of hardcore bullwhipping on his CV, or the ability to tie you up in pretty japanese rope work (looks great, but I don't have the patience), I have to admit, reluctantly (!), that I'm probably not your man. Also, if you need a genuine sadist, I'm not going to float your boat either as I genuinely respect and enjoy the company of women. That doesn't mean I'm not strict when appropriate and I'm fond of giving a good spanking, flogging or other form of discipline.

I have an open mind about whether this should be within a long-term monogamous relationship, or just a casual arrangement. If long term, there must be other connections apart from just BDSM, as I have many interests outside kinky sex.

I like to think I'm confident, well adjusted, easy going, well mannered, considerate, discreet, clean, in good shape for my year and can hold a reasonable conversation when required!

I'd particularly like to meet someone with a sense of humour who is relaxed with who they are.

Eye colour: Brown   Hair colour: Brown   Height: 6ft   Weight: 13st 12lb   BMI: 26.1  

This profile was last updated on 9 Jul 11, 6:49 AM.

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