8 Nov 2011

IC Name: tanken Joined: 3 Aug 2009 Last visit: 84 minutes ago Sex/gender: Male Location: Norwich, UK Age: 60

One day I will meet a woman who I am sexually compatible with although I wouldn't complain about my previous marriage or any of the women that I have had relationships with in the past.

Now just started as a self employed professional photographer and will be doing weddings and portraits mainly.

I don't think pursuing women actually works for me as most of my previous partners have either approached me or we have bumped into each other when inebriated

You can see from the interests list what aspects of bdsm I like so I don't need to repeat it here.

I can be quite shy with approaching strangers although I chat readily to all sorts of people when I have a reason to and as I have been involved in left wing politics I have knocked on many doors and talked to lots of people over the course of several decades.

I've never been a professional politician and am more interested in the theory than anything else even though I have been quite active during some periods of my life.

That interest in theory covers all human relations including sexual relations and there are some interesting discussions on IC from time to time that I like.

My mother's side of the family were all interested in art and used to draw and paint and I followed suit in my early teens although I soon discovered that my slightly deficient colour vision would rule out painting seriously.

At the same time I was also interested in science and mathematics and that is what I studied in my younger days before moving on to politics, history, philosophy, and economics.

Most of my previous relationships have been vanilla (with a small amount of play on occasion) and now that I am older it would be nice to find sexual compatibility as well as social compatibility. Indeed, these days I would sacrifice the latter at least for a while just to let the passions run wild for a change

I like to keep my identity secret for the casual observer but if there are any interested ladies that want a link to my vanilla dating video on Twitvid I am happy to send a memo with a link as long as you will respect my confidentiality

These days I am beginning to realise that looking for a domme may be the wrong thing for me because although I like women who get sexual pleasure from inflicting pain I am not specifically looking for domination as such so maybe a switch or someone who is a little bit sadistic is more compatible? I think I'm just an 'awkward' person who doesn't easily fit pidgeonholes

Eye colour: Blue G   Hair colour: Grey   Height: 5ft 9in   Weight: 12st   BMI: 24.6  

This profile was last updated on 24 Nov 11, 2:14 PM.

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