Goat	IC Name: t_judd Joined: 25 Aug 2003 Last visit: 8 hours ago Sex/gender: Male Location: Southcoast, UK Age: 54 Website: http://fetlife.com...

I used to have a fair amount written here, for some reason I decided I didn't like what I had written and pressed delete. Later I realised it would probably have been a better idea to edit the original rather than start again. The person who said tops are infallible is slightly wide of the mark, well in my case at least.

Like many I am here to keep in touch with people I know. I am also here to hopefully meet someone compatible with the vanilla and bdsm aspects of me and I of them.

I have a life beyond kink and would want to be with someone who shares some of my interests. If you are a raving tory, a europhobe, read the daily mail etc, then we are unlikely to get on. If like me you thought what Tony Blair promised was good and are now disappointed in what happened, then there is more of a chance. If you are now thinking WTF do the liberals think they are doing, well that makes two of us. I care for the environment, feel slightly guilty about the flights I take to travel to the wonderful places I have been. So try to lead as green a life as possible to make up for the flights. Despite my greenish side I do like F1, but this is the only sport I watch, footy passes me by completely.

I live on the south coast, in a town that boasts two piers, though one is a rusting wreck. Have lived here for over 25 years. I only came for a 3 month temporary contract and found enough to keep me here. Or as a friend cruelly said I probably couldn't find my way out.

Whilst I have ticked some of the boxes about what I like and don't like, I find lists of tick boxes don't usually offer the things I would like to tick. I hope it gives a flavour of my kink interests. There are activities I have enjoyed with previous partners, I have very few that I feel are essential, some that I would encourage you to try and a few that I can take or leave. I suppose what I am getting slowly around to saying is that what I like depends on the dynamic developed between myself and my partner, that the psychological part is as important as the physical part. If it doesn't rock your boat, then I feel I would be flogging a dead horse as they say.

If you want to know more, memo me. Course if you might be one of the unfortunates that I have sent a memo to and are just checking out this profile to find out if I am safely dangerous or is that dangerous in a safe way? I reckon I am pretty harmless, well unless you want me not to be harmless.

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This profile was last updated on 16 Sep 11, 6:19 PM.

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