IC Name: suspension_slut Joined: 16 Mar 2010 Last visit: 5 hours ago Sex/gender: Female Location: Manchester, UK

I am the incredibly happy submissive and girlfriend of cleric. As such, any requests for play with me should be sent to him and they will be considered individually. Any unsolicited messages sent to me will be forwarded to him and be aware it will not warm you to either of us. His!

Me at a glance

I'm at Manchester University, live in a house full to the brim of kinky, activisty people, spend my spare time (as in time not taken up by kink and uni work) socialising with friends, reading, watching tv, and volunteering with children... which I hope to somehow turn into a career once the student bubble pops. I'm from the Newcastle area originally, but no I don't have a Geordie accent nor even a hint of a one (apparently I sound posh). I've absolutely fallen in love with Manchester and hope to stay here after Uni or certainly return to settle further down the line. [heading] Important people in my life?

There's so many now, which I find incredible given where I was in comparison in my first year of uni. But anyway, obviously my wonderful dominant cleric, also my gorgeous sister in kink NeitiE ( we felt it necessary to clarify our relationship after two people in a week asked if we were together), my kinky housemates you are all incredible, and then all my wonderful friends. Special mention goes to Bigmeanhairyman, blue-roses, Jeni-Em and Shibari-fire. But I really want to say such a massive thank you to all my friends because you're all such amazing people and make my life such a happy place. I only add people I've met in real life, but given that I go to most of the events in the Manchester scene I don't think that's too much to ask :P. Particularly, I'm regularly at the U35s munch, the Manchester munch, Fab munch, Kage and Rope Jam. I'm hoping to start coming to the occasional event in other cities too as I love meeting new people.

Yummy kinky mmmms.

Listed below are my main ones so far, but see my fetish list for a MUCH longer list.

Rope

I only really discovered rope on joining the scene in September 2011, but it is amazing fun. I love every aspect of it, whether it's being thrown around whilst the rigger makes it up as he goes, or waiting patiently whilst he fiddles around behind my back (although this is made a 100 times better by having pizza in one hand and the TV within view). Suspension in particular gives me a wonderful weeeeeee and/or mmmm feeling and I'm very honoured that cleric did his first ever suspension on me. As far as where I want to go next I'd love to just gain more experience of all aspects of rope but in particular check my curious list for just what I want most.

Breath Play

Again, I really began experiencing this on joining the scene, specifically on my first evening alone with cleric on the sofas next to the loos in Via. That night has to be one of the most erotic of my life, with a hand over my mouth and nose and one eye on the staircase in case someone should begin walking down it he took my breath away again and again (sorry couldn't resist :P). Since then I've got more and more into it and really want to experience everything it has to offer (except perhaps waterboarding I'll leave that to crazy masochists like the lovely Serene_chaos).

Hitting with pretty much anything

I had a fair amount of experience of face slapping, floggers and a bit with caning before joining the scene but yet again (you might spot a pattern here) cleric has shown me what can really be done with floggers when they are in the right hands. He has also recently acquired a single tail and I am very much enjoying having him learn on me. When my big sis, NeitiE, mentioned to me that she had had her first experience of body punching and kicking, thanks to the relevant body parts of Bigmeanhairyman and blue-roses, my initial reaction was a gut clenching nu-uh! Oooo how wrong I was! All I can here is a thank you to them both for introducing me to the pleasures of a fist or foot or fore arm to any body part. I also must here mention the belt, cleric was as I remember becoming frustrated that nothing seemed to make me bruise and decided to try a belt… damn it hurt but mmm lovely bruises are just so satisfying.

And Last but certainly not least… Orgasm Play

By this I mean pretty much anything directly involving orgasms. Orgasm denial, forced orgasm, training to orgasm (cleric's latest trick is to have conditioned me to orgasm when he clicks his fingers). Apparently it's like dating someone with tourettes, except rather than random words its orgasms… I however disagree as none of my orgasms are truly random, and more often than not they are directly caused by him, but as he says 'It's just too much fun!' Saying all this my true big kink? Submission… I adore handing over control, not knowing what will happen next is a feeling I can't get enough of, which is why I'm so happy to be in the process of fully submitting to just one man.

Kinky Nu-uhs.

I only have one really which is scat… just too yucky… watersports might sometimes fall into this bracket but as I have done it and expect I may again, I wouldn't definitively put it in the nu-uh bracket.

Corny I know but...

I'm going to finish with what is possibly my favourite quote “You've gotta dance like there's nobody watching, Love like you'll never be hurt, Sing like there's nobody listening, And live like it's heaven on earth.” ― William W. Purkey. And I think it sums up pretty well how I try to live (if don't always succeed).

This profile was last updated on 6 Mar 12, 8:45 AM.

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