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IC Name: subtrainer69 Joined: 4 Mar 2001 Last visit: 13 hours ago Sex/gender: Male Location: Newark, UK Age: 68

I no longer call myself a Master because in my view if I no longer have a collared sub or slave then I should not wear the title.

But I am not on here looking for a replacement, I have all that I need at the moment in the closest of relationships with a very lovely woman although we live apart.

I am a dominant male and very straightforward. I offer experience and training if required to others and hope to make friends as well.

My speciality is in formal behaviour training, but I enjoy most aspects of Bdsm activity and Dungeon treatment for which I have a considerable variety of equipment. I do love all forms of bondage and and have access to private land for outdoor sessions and photography, which I am happy to share with other likeminded Doms.

I have had many years experience, mainly through successfully training female subbies for their own benefit (and my pleasure) or sometimes for/on behalf of other interested or less experienced Doms. I still have this desire to teach as well as 'play' and do guide others. So I welcome contact from female subbies, or even couples, who desire more or different experiences to learn from. Naturally I particularly welcome one to one with female subbies at various levels, though I have a close female switch friend who can assist at times.

How can subbies be trained you wonder? What is the point? First of all they learn how they react under control to different situations. They have a chance to experiment with many things in reality that they may only have fantasised about, but not by taking a chance with a strange Dom who may be only interested in his pleasure. But in a safe environment, with friendly guidance to suit their needs.

Those who are looking for a longterm Bdsm partner, or even Master, will appreciate more what to look for and will be able to set their firm limits in advance, enabling them to negotiate with more confidence. I have mentored for some, vetted Doms for others, even rescued damsels in distress from their clutches! But others can come just for the experience and the pleasure gained. All may discover things about themselves and their submissive feelings that they did not expect.

I start with a well proved control system, but it will be modified to suit the nature and needs of the subby. Like any good Master, I seek to know what works for her and use it to her advantage. I hope to teach them to know themselves better. It can vary from a gentle introduction to my control, to a full experience of role –playing that of a slave in various forms. I am adaptable, it would primarily suit your needs rather then mine. But other forms of roleplay are possible, I also have good friends who can assist if you like contact with more than one male or female.

I particularly welcome nervous newcomers and am considerate of their needs, though they must expect strict control. Age and appearance are not important, but attitude is!

I do not interfere with your private life, and am not concerned about any other relationships you might have. It is your personal development that will interest me.

Although I am pleased to communicate by email, talk on the phone, answer questions and even give advice, I am not interested in cyber control. I doubt if I could do it effectively for long, so please do not waste my time. I will chat to those I have already received email and memos from but not strangers.

Also if you are a single male sub, I sympathise but cannot help you. However if you are a sub or switch couple, then the dynamics are different and you both can learn.

What do I get out of this? Not money certainly, I am happy to entertain and accommodate you if you live at a distance, provided that you interest me. I get the pleasure of control of course, but the satisfaction of seeing the pleasure a sub experiences as they develop their self knowledge, is my main reward.

Do not be put off if the 'Training' aspect does not appeal, I enjoy various ways of doing things. I do have the time and interest to give from my experience to others, so get in touch and see if we are compatible.

Yes, do memo me, I am always happy to answer questions.

I have recently moved from West Wales to the East Midlands and through networking have made quite a few new friends. Several from London already visit occasionally. I am much more available here for subbies visiting from many parts and look forward to hearing from new people as well as old friends.

Thank you for wading through all this I hope it interests you.

Yahoo messenger:subtrainer69   Eye colour: blue   Hair colour: greyish   Height: 6ft 1in   Weight: 11st 7lb   BMI: 21.1  

This profile was last updated on 31 Jan 11, 10:35 PM.

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