I am single male Dom, living on the Hampshire/Surrey border and I am seeking someone special, of the opposite sex, preferably submissive to share my life with. I work for myself as an IT consultant.

Photos are a bit naff, as I want to protect my privacy, and I hate having my photo taken (which is normal for someone interested in photography). However, I am tall (6ft) and very slim. My body shape hasn't really changed since my late teens (I can actually still wear clothes I had at 18). I have brown hair, blue eyes (which are usually behind glasses).

The type of person that I am looking for needs to be single with no children (at all). That isn't to say I don't like children. I would like children at some point, just mine. I am not looking for a ready made family. You also need to be a non smoker or someone willing to give up very quickly.

Physically, due to my own slim build, someone with a similar build to me is probably the best fit. If you are a larger lady then we probably will not get on. It is hard to Dominate a girl who can simply sit on you, and sharing a bed (to sleep I mean) is a challenge.

I am a traditionalist, sort of a modern take on a 1950's household or a taken in hand type of relationship. I like my partner to dress in a feminine way. I prefer the subtle D/s type approach, where it is an undercurrent during life in general.

I am looking for someone within an easy travelling distance of me – up to an hour at most. I am not willing to relocate. While I am not looking for 24/7, I do want to spend time with someone regularly – which isn't practical if there is a long drive between you.

There are a number of things that I dislike, so it is probably best to state those here and now as it saves disappointments later on.

No couples. I don't want to share. No males/TVs – no interest there at all.

I am also not into piercing elsewhere than the ears - naval is ok, but no lower and certainly not on the face or more intimate areas.

Not really in to heavy pain, although I can understand the appeal of that to some. Cane, crop etc will not be used, although I have dished out a spanking using my hand or a hair brush in the past. I have this thing about using the girls own things against her…

Also - I am not in to the "scene". As far as I am concerned this will be a private arrangement between the two of us.

Finally...

If I have sent you a note and you have read this far and are not interested, then please be polite and let me know. Furthermore if we have had some communication and you decide that we aren't suited, again please do tell me. I am not one of those stalker types, but there is nothing worse than being ignored.

For some reason I don't get notification of new memos (although saving memos work). Therefore if I haven't read your memo, then send me an email directly sb123uk2002 at yahoo dot com .

Last update 30th November 2008