I have a wonderful partner and playmate strictlyexploring. We are very happy together and not looking for anyone else to play with ... however we would love to meet / chat / make friends with likeminded people, both online and in r/l. If we're not tied up that is

For what it's worth, our relationship includes bdsm rather than revolves totally around it - a healthy mixture of things does it for us. Sometimes a simple cuddle can mean as much, if not more, than a play session but hey, that's what does it for us

I do not 'own' SE - she is an intelligent person whose values and opinions are important to me and to our relationship. Outside of play, she is my equal with a voice and a mind of her own (as those who know us will confirm!).

Dominant and domineering have very different meanings and submission is something to be offered and accepted, rather than assumed or demanded. Or at least that is our take on it. Other people have a different view of things and they are neither right nor wrong, just different.

So why am I here? To meet new people and to have a laugh about life, love and bdsm. To share successes, failures and to learn from other peoples' experiences. Sometimes it's just pure escapism and the odd spot of troll baiting if I'm bored

In other news...

Everyone on IC uses the network facility differently. Personally, I use it highlight friends, interesting people and those I've met and would like to get to know better

Why the cock-shot as an avatar? Ho hum .. I originally used it another site as a humerous/ironic comment on the number of men there who seem to think that the way to attract a partner is to have a picture of their cock as their profile pic. The funny thing is that the other site has now banned my cock as it's 'inappropriate'. I guess they don't understand irony. Hey ho.

We've met many lovely people at munches, clubs and fairs so please do give us a shout here or say 'hi' if we meet you out and about!

SN

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