28 Feb 2012

IC Name: straitjacket Joined: 7 Nov 2011 Last visit: 3 hours ago Sex/gender: Male Location: SA (Swansea), UK Age: 36

Hello, I'm looking to expand my desires from the confines of my imagination. Should have done it a long time ago but better late than never.

I'm single,employed, live on my own but no Rockefeller unfortunately,I'm just like everybody else . I have many interests from music,sport,cinema ,restaurants,reading,travelling,learning new things and socialising with my friends. I regularly perform music and occasionally take part as a competitor in sporting events but now I'm part of a organising team for a club and I'm more behind the scenes now where it comes to my sporting endeavours.I've done a bit of European/Asia travel as my budget allows and have an extensive wishlist of places to visit. Love watching films of all sorts from many countries and enjoy going to the Cinema to see new releases.Reading is something I do everyday, non-fiction and fiction. I enjoy going out with friends to pubs but find run of the mill nightclubs a bit boring,I prefer live music performances of any sort instead.

Personality wise I think that I am a happy person who enjoys life and enjoys spending it with friends and loved ones. I'm not mean spirited but generous, I'm a good listener and be open too . I'm definetly not perfect but I'm happy that my imperfections are not that bad

I'm both Dom and Sub(or should that be top and bottomor should I just say switch lol! ) with not much experience yet,I don't feel that I'm more one than the other so to speak but it does vary by how I feel at that time and definetely whom I with.I'm looking for eventually a long term relationship with that special someone but in the meantime I'm happy to chat to people online and meeting up in the flesh .I am open to playing casually with no strings attached, that could be anything from meeting up socially,having a cup of tea ,to trying out some rope ties and maybe if after awhile more serious types of play.I've never been to any Bdsm orientated social events , no idea if there's an etiquette or social rules. That's why I've joined Informed Consent and find out more and take part.

The Dom side of me is only happy in putting you into places where you feel ultimately safe and feel confident in having me take control during “playtime”. If I don't feel that then I will stop straightaway. If your not happy then I'm not happy .I'm very open to carrying out what you the slave wants and I really like to talk about before hand ,maybe days ,weeks before the event, what you the slave desires so that no misunderstandings happen and also anticipation of what's to come feels so good. Obviously if I think that what you want goes beyond what I feel comfortable with, I tell you before we even begin.I won't lie to you. This may sound all a bit like topping from the bottom but i don't feel that because it is I who will dictate how the play will go and when your desire will be fulfilled or how it will be done. Also you will know what I would like to do and if you feel comfortable with it beforehand , I will bring it in. I want you to not know what is coming next so to speak, all the better for a nice suprise and exciting time for both of us.

The Slave side to me is very much like above but roles reversed , I like the not knowing what you the Mistress will do next. The profile on the right gives you a fair indication of what I like as a Dom or Sub. I'm not into humiliation or domestic servitude as a sub,you can wash your own dishes but as a Dom I'm willing to try these but you're not going to be doing housework, I rather something more symbolic in that respect.

I'm willing to travel and I can acommodate if things go well beforehand but I need to have talked to you for a while first ,not just online but face to face .I need to know enough about you so I can have trust in you, wether you are Dom or Sub and very importantly you have trust in me also. I'm looking to make friends female or male and hopefully meet people socially or other.But also chatting online with people further away is fun too.So drop me a memo or whatever

I now go to the Swansea Social munches at the last Saturday of every month. A real nice bunch of people who make you feel welcome. Come along and say hello Hopefully soon I be going to events further afield, told you I like travelling

Eye colour: blue   Hair colour: brown   Height: 5ft 10in  

This profile was last updated on 17 Apr 12, 9:34 PM.

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