IC Name: spartiate Joined: 20 Jun 2002 Last visit: 35 hours ago Sex/gender: Male Location: Herts/Beds/Bucks, UK Age: 51

Life throws up many choices. Some are easy; others take care and forethought. Selecting a Dom/Master is in the latter category.

My requirements: You can be any age, race, looks. It's not that I don't have preferences. In fact, I like real-shaped women who know a thing or two about life. But in the bdsm world, how old you are or how you look are secondary. What counts to me is your willingness to explore, your eagerness to please, your obedience to my command.

Experience is not necessary, a desire to learn is essential. It's OK if you're a newbie - we'll just take things more slowly. Trust and communication (both ways) are also important, and we'll take the time we need to build them up.

Bondage can be psychological, symbolic and physical and I shall bind you to me with all three.

Service is important to me and I'll train you in the joy of exceeding my exacting standards. Service is not just a matter of making your body available to me when and where I desire it. Service is active in deed and focussed in mind. Service is anticipating my desires and proactively pleasing me, whilst surrendering control to me. Service requires intelligence and grace - qualities I prize highly in a woman.

Discipline is a key ingredient of bdsm. As a dominant, I exercise self-discipline and self-control at all times. I am also a sadist, and you will be beaten regularly and carefully - to correct your faults, to punish your mistakes, to entertain your Master, and to reward your efforts. Erotic pain is a part of your fantasies, and I shall train you ever so carefully to open up your body to new sensations and to find fulfillment over my knee and under the whip.

A woman collared, bound and well displayed before me is both beautiful to my eyes and a convenience for my use. Are you ready to be that woman?

A little about me and what I am seeking.

I have always been interested in bdsm since my adolescence, but it has not dominated my life. I have my vanilla side which complements my kink. Each is a significant part of my life.

I am married with kids, and my children are very important to me. This puts limitations on what I can offer a submissive and I know well that many subs seek Doms without attachments. I fully understand and respect that.

Also I am the proud owner of two girls: charm (my submissive) and flame (my slave).

I seek a third sub woman, local, able to accommodate, for daily contact and weekly meets, for conversation and laughter as well as for D/s.

Eye colour: brown   Hair colour: brown   Height: 5ft 10in   Weight: 13st 7lb   BMI: 26.9  

This profile was last updated on 12 Nov 11, 5:44 AM.

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