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IC Name: snarkysub Joined: 13 Oct 2004 Last visit: 50 minutes ago Sex/gender: Female Location: London/Cambridge, UK Age: 37

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The crib notes.

Me:

Independent, cultured, silly, honest, American & British (far more the former than the latter, with the accent to prove it!), arty, creative, caring, loyal, stubborn, intelligent, shy, generous, inquisitive, outspoken, passionate, witty, intense, quirky, Architect, avid reader, knitter, cyclist, foodie, television watcher, dinghy sailor, newbie guitar plucker, wannabe Japanese chef, PhD Student, meat eater, world traveler, non-smoker, bondage enthusiast, occasional rope tier (but really not a switch) sensation addict, frequent masochist, 100% submissive.

You:

Unattached, dominant, clever, passionate (about -something-), local, no more than five years younger or older than me* (*generally).

As for the rest? Surprise me.

A little bit more.

I'm not 'scene' (although have been spotted about at Peer Rope London, Oblivion, and Crimson...), I've had some great experiences with people I've met here (as well as the not so great, c'est la vie). I've been able to experience things I only imagined were possible, and I can't imagine life without the beauty, the excitement, and the fulfilling intensity of kink.

But life is more than kink. And while playing can be fun, a relationship is what I'm after. I want to be able to share all aspects of my life with someone, not just the naughty bits. Anyway, I've found that the naughty bits need a deeper level of emotional attachment, mental exploration, commitment, and consistency to be truly worthwhile. However, just to give a bit of insight, I'd say my play style veers towards 'pet' if you want to pick an archetype. Frequently playful, loves tasks, attention, being pleasing, and direction - but also may need to be reminded of place and seek containment or experience more overt control from time to time. I like to be challenged and pushed and stretched as much as I like to be held and rewarded and appreciated. I could also say that I enjoy challenging my dominant to be the best that they can be, and like to hold them and appreciate them in turn! I know that my submission is deeply tied to my emotions. The more I feel for someone, the more I want to give to and do for that person.

To be clear, I'm not interested in jumping to the smut. I'm interested in getting to know someone. I'm interested in someone who wants to get to know me. I love kink- and I bet you do too, but we've got to have more to talk about than that. Luckily I'm never really short of things to talk about- from chicken reproduction, to world travel, to how to eat an ortolan, to the best London markets, to amusing youtube clips, to a good book to read, to movies that are coming out, to the environment and a million other things besides.

And of course, once I do get to know someone, I love to talk about smut as well!!

As an addition, I should mention that I currently split my time between London and Cambridge until mid 2013. I am open to meeting someone in Cambridge, but not if your life plan means you want to stay in Cambridge. I don't and won't. I'd rather be up front about this than waste anyone's time.

If nothing here struck a chord? Well best of luck to you and thanks for reading. We all need a bit of luck in this, no?

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Eye colour: hazel   Hair colour: brown   Height: 5ft 3in   Weight: 12st 8lb   BMI: 30.9  

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