IC Name: slavejef Joined: 17 Feb 2003 Last visit: 2 days ago Sex/gender: Male Location: SP (Salisbury), UK Age: 54

Update: In vanilla relationship the last seven years. Great in many ways but missing the action on BDSM scene and partner really not interested at all. Anybody here have some ideas as to how I might encourage her? - or to let me have some BDSM relationships in parallel?

Not as experienced as I would like to be - but maybe the real dominant likes to shape a new subject to their desire. Some quite varied experience including filming at OWK (have written an article about this which I can e-mail if anyone is interested). Very keen on the idea that the sub does not make any suggestions/requests but that the dom/me does just as they please. If not, what is the point? I know that some dom/mes find this lazy on the part of the sub and that it puts too much pressure on them. Different strokes (pun intended) for different folks but I just can not see that working. I am not into extreme pain at the moment (but we might work on that), more into bondage/humiliation/control, but, as already said, it is the dom/me that decides. Perhaps the best bit about being a sub is having the confidence to trust the dom/me so totally. It's a sensation you do not get much in normal life.

Yahoo messenger:slavejef3   Eye colour: Grey   Hair colour: Brown   Height: 5ft 9in   Weight: 13st 7lb   BMI: 27.7  

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