A sparkly picture edited by a friend, I made the skirt!!

IC Name: simplysarah Joined: 4 Oct 2010 Last visit: 260 days ago Sex/gender: Female Location: B (Birmingham), UK

I am still very new to this whole world of bdsm but for the first time I am feeling pretty comfortable with myself within it. I get to the M42 munch pretty much every month as well as the BBB. Over the last few months I have been getting to a lot of play parties around Birmingham and will continue to do so in the future. I am a big fan of Exodus and the nights there as well as The Facility. Still haven't gone to one on my own so that is on my to do list soon!!

If for some reason my user-name or some of the pics I have posted didn't give it away I am an SSBBW, a size 32 here in the UK. I am fairly confident and happy in myself, like meeting new people but find it difficult to start conversations sometimes so I generally wait for someone to talk to me first.

I have met some wonderful people and made some friends. I consider myself to be a good friend to those who are open and honest with me, honesty is a really important thing for me. I am friendly and out going and I care about people I consider friends and will always help them when I can.

I have found my confidence has improved a lot over the last few months, I know a lot of people don't like looking at a woman half naked my size but then they can just look away! I enjoy dressing up; pvc, rubber, lace and stockings are things I feel comfortable and happy wearing....until the stockings start falling down that is. I do have times of feeling uncomfortable but that's just me fighting the inner voice that has kept my body well hidden all my life. Have gone topless a fair few times for play at play parties and I am almost ok with it, getting better so that's a good sign.

As for my role, well I am not a big fan of labels and feeling like I should try to conform to a perceived standard so kinkster will do me for now.

I have recently discovered that I love getting tied to things, having my movement restricted and feeling vulnerable is something that makes me very happy. Getting hit with stingy and thuddy things are just a bonus for me at that point! I do enjoy some pain but the feeling of being tied to something and someone controlling what happens to me is better than just laying there and getting hit with things!

I do have some switchy thoughts at times but I am in no rush to explore that side as of yet. I am looking for people to learn from, about myself and this kinky fuckery as well as friends who will not judge. As for things I still want to try, needles and whips are at the forefront. I have a tiny bit of experience with both and are both something I want to have done to me again. However, I will still be happiest when I am cuffed to some sort of table or cross and getting teased with the swish of a nasty cane.

As for “vanilla” me I like going to the pub, cinema, walking my dog, reading, listening to music and getting to gigs when I can. Recently decided to get a sewing machine and although I had never used one before I am having fun learning as I go along and have made a few things that are somewhat wearable.

Thanks for reading and feel free to say hello if you want, please send a message before a request though as I do like to have met or chatted to people on my friends list!!

This profile was last updated on 12 Jun 11, 1:20 PM.

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