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IC Name:silver_lotus
Joined:27 Jun 2008
Last visit:36 hours ago
Sex/gender:Male
Location:CB (Cambridge), UK

Have grown to really love IC ! I've been on the fringes of the scene for years (uk.people bodyart/bdsm). I'm an older guy, bright and sparkly, with a wide experience of life, a 'Wii fit' age of 42, able to indulge and enjoy following my own interests - reading, alternative medicine (homeopathy and Reiki), very keen on photography since I was 11.

I'm fascinated by how varied we all are! I've met some folk with extra-ordinary perceptions and gifts. I have a subtle sense of humour and a curiosity about almost everything, and a passion for getting to the bottom of stuff, so don't be surprised if you find I've written an essay - it's just me wanting to be helpful and informative, and add to the dialogue....

I'm very sensitive, sensual, tactile, surprisingly intuitive, gentle, patient and understanding. I'm also very deeply sexual. Like brighton rock, it runs right through me.. I delight in giving and taking all forms of pleasure, often well beyond expections. I know how to manage and control. with plenty of 'command' experience :-).. and I'm single and unattached atm..I'm an integral part of the Cambridge network / group / commune....

I love chatting, listening, and making the most of life, and making new friends of all ages, some to e-mail, some to have coffee with, and some to dominate with great sensitivity, instinct, lust and power.

I know some of you ladies who are bright, well-organised, responsible and probably managing a significant job and maybe a family as well often wonder what it would be like to be able to shed all these for a while and experience the feelings you're not supposed to have, to be able to just let go and be totally submissive to a man, and explore these fantasies of male dominance, to get in touch with those elusive feelings and explore those emotions...? I can help you, in a private, controlled and managed way where you can do just that, in your own way, within your own parameters, at your own pace. I have a private playroom / studio where I can take and make whatever photographic images you have wondered about, too...

So if you are very new or shy or want to test the water and just make new friends, or very experienced with an army of contacts (or if you want some photos taken :-) ) do feel free to memo. I'm here every so often and on Fetlife (same name /photo) - and I don't bite. :-) However, I do nibble, and have been known to nip, and I am an inveterate fondler, voyeur, director, writer, cameraman.. :-)

(None of my photos are posted anywhere automatically, I've put a few of the more 'anonymous' fetish scene ones up here, those which I've asked and been given specific permission to use, as most stay completely private of course.)

Eye colour: DBrown   Hair colour: Dark Grey   Height: 5ft 10in   Weight: 10st 12lb   BMI: 21.6  

This profile was last updated on 21 May 12, 2:32 PM.

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