I am currently looking for a daddydom (age 30-45ish) in the Sussex area, albeit in a fairly relaxed manner as I want to find someone 'right'.

I've been into BDSM quite long enough to know what I need and will be resistant to a relationship that's missing the key elements that keep me sane and happy.

I'm fairly open to casual play, but want to know you as a friend first. I'm not the clingy needy sort but in my world love means that, I can't switch my feelings on and off.

I'm a 'BBW', and while I am becoming increasingly confident in my own skin I'm still not a 'girly' girl. I'm happier in a straitjacket than a skirt If you aren't attracted to bigger girls, don't message me ... I am sick of feeling like I have to 'warn' people and of receiving stupid comments like 'well, you have a pretty face'.

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I am a bratty, stubborn subby girl who likes bondage, pain and humiliation. I also need to be looked after, nurtured and controlled - I can't do one without the other.

I've come to realise that I can be reasonably masochistic, and I get off on being pushed, scared, and mindfucked. I need a confident, strong dominant who takes control and doesn't need guiding through a scene.

I'm also into ageplay - outside of the daddy/little girl dynamic that manifests itself as a deep seated need to be looked after. I'm coming to realise I need a daddy dom in my life, or at least semi-regular interactions on that wavelength. I'm shy about talking about this online, but it is a very definite part of me.

I don't do service submission or etiquette - about as far as I go into that territory is fetching my dom a drink. I like 'Sir' (though just as likely to be used as sarcasm!), I'm not a fan of 'Master', and if you like to call yourself 'Lord' or some variation thereof then we really aren't on the same page. I really like ownership, rules and control though.

My top turn ons are physical restraint, properly warmed up spankings, doms in business suits, and bondage (preferably of the leather + padlocks kind).

I don't like scene bullshit and drama, random grammar (capitalising pronouns does not make y/You more of a t/Twue slave/Master), 'u' instead of you, pictures of your cock, 'lifestyle' or 'true' anything or people who think 'dom' = 'license to be an asshole'. I do this stuff for fun, not because I believe it's some kind of higher state of being / the natural order of things / etc.

Intelligence is a turnon. Confidence is a turnon. Arrogance is not.

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On the non-pervy side I like geeky stuff, gaming, photography, crafting and rock/punk/alternative music. I'm also into eco living, gardening, history (particularly social/domestic) and art, and I love to read (though I'm not high-brow about it).

Eye colour: brown   Hair colour: dark brown   Height: 5ft 6in  

This profile was last updated on 13 May 12, 6:06 PM.

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