Munch Bunch - Cardiff, Merthyr, Newport

I'm a thirty-six year old redhead (not natural!) with curves. I've known about my submissive desires since I was 17 but have only been able to act upon them in the last couple of years following a long vanilla relationship.

I'm a creative type and love to make things. I have more yarn and books than I could ever knit or read I'm a Gemini. I'm an unashamed geek and love sci-fi, although I'm more likely to watch it than read it, and comic books. You can probably guess that Catwoman is one of my faves along with Wonder Woman. I also enjoy cooking and gardening, but I'll never be into domestic service! I adore film but there is not enough money in the world to make me see Mamma Mia. If a film's a "chick flick" then it's almost a sure bet that I'll despise it.

Other things that I like include; copious amounts of tea, sexy burlesque dresses, fluttery feathery fascinators, little hats with veils, very long gloves, being spanked, high heels, my tabby cat, Mac Red lipstick, Apple Mac computers, my iPhone, geeky gadgets.

D/s is far more my kink than S&M but I love being spanked and it's something that I request when in a relationship. I'm not into rubber or leather, my fetish is for men in business suits I blame Patrick Macnee from The Avengers for this I love word play, words can be so powerful.

I'm not looking for 24/7, TPE, TIH or to be "trained". Not looking for casual play either. I'm looking for a dominant who's emotionally literate and also romantic. Crucially, someone who understands that at the end of the day, it's all just a fantasy. Intelligence is also sooo sexy. As are glasses However, I have a low tolerance for bs and egotism.

I'm a pedant, grammar is very important to me. If you have poor written communication skills we're probably not going to be a good match.

Not looking for anyone who's old enough to be my father, no marrieds or poly. Just to clarify again, I'm not interested in anyone who's already in a relationship. No switches unless you can be happy with just being dom. If you're younger than me that's not really an issue, and while I'd prefer someone local, distance isn't an issue either.

If you don't know me already, and decide to send me a memo please put "Maupin" in the title so that I know that you've read this far. Oh and remember that I'm a person first and sub second. Wanky, inappropriate memos will be ignored and forwarded to all my friends I don't appreciate one liner memos from strangers either.

I'm not always in front of the mac when I'm logged into ic, so bear that in mind if it's been a while and I've not read your memo.

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