More dom now than sub,but can happily switch with the right person. I'm not looking for long term relationships, but more of occasional visits to or with anyone who's got similar interests to myself, preferably female. I'm kind and caring and respect the needs, wishes and limits of those who chose to play with me.

I LOVE sensory deprivation using blindfolds, earplugs, rubber hoods, hands behind the back, feet tied together and being made to move around somewhere totally strange, preferably outdoors and watching others doing the same. Total immovable bondage.

If YOU haven't got much of a collection of playthings, don't worry,I've got a goodly collection or rubberware including a complete body bag and other bits and pieces, masks, breath games, poppers, stinging nettles (when in season), strap-on play, nipple torture etc. I'm 56, 6'1, I've been told I'm not bad looking, a bit overwight. I'm articulate, well educated and have a fun sense of humour.

Warning-I'm married too, but my better half knows of my fetishes and chooses not to be involved. She used to go to clubs with me for a while and said it wasn'f for her so now she lets me out "to play" at times. I used to frequent clubs in London such as The Fringe (when it was going), and was rsident DJ at der Putsch and Madame Venus in the late 1980's and early 1990's. Been on the scene for more years than I can rememeber!

My profession allows me to travel around so if you're available at odd times during the day or the evening sometimes, leave me a memo. I'm not really into chat rooms, but all memos will be answered, even if to say thanks but no thanks. I've had lots of contacts with guys; are there any ladies out there with similar interests?