I'm not an edgy, pain-fuelled, obedient slave whose only desire is to cater to your every whim. In fact in a serious relationship I would like to have an equal say on what constitutes our emotional well being, and will tell you and expect understanding if I believe something will harm me.

I like to be controlled, but according to the tried and tested cliche, you have to earn the right to control me. The reason why it's a cliche is it's true. If I am to be pushed I need to trust you completely.

A good D/s relationship isn't the only thing I desire, although it can be rewarding in its own right. I'd like to meet a dominant man who is available to share the good and bad times with me, to share special times with me and who wants our relationship to fulfil both our needs.

Furthermore, I'm not expecting anyone to meet that criteria overnight! Sometimes I like playing just for the sake of it, and if it doesn't work out, we can both have fun. However in the long term I need a man to be available so at least we can explore the possibility of a future relationship together. Most importantly, I would like to meet someone who I can trust.

Sensually I enjoy with the right person: Giving pleasure Responding to orders Being bound and vulnerable CP, both as pain and the pleasure of subspacing from it

I would like to meet someone with whom I'm compatible above and beyond any kinkiness.

I could write a list of things I'm into, but actually it doesn't matter as you could be into the opposite and we could still get along. I like music by X, and you like music by Y, I want to visit A and you want to visit B. I think of these differences as opportunities for discovery.

I'd like to meet someone who is tactile. I like skin on skin contact at all times, not just when feeling horny. I cherish being physically close to my partner, and get a lot of satisfaction from just walking hand in hand.

I would like my partner to be not overweight so a BMI in the healthy weight range would be good, unless you have the muscles to prove otherwise. It might be shallow, but I'm only really attracted to men who are six foot tall or over.

If you write to me and I haven't heard from you before, please include the word 'Bagpuss'. If you do this I will know you've actually read my profile to this point and haven't just copied and pasted the same memo to everyone.

Eye colour: Blue   Hair colour: Blonde   Height: 5ft 8in   Weight: 9st 7lb   BMI: 20.1  

This profile was last updated on 29 Apr 11, 10:35 PM.

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