I am looking for a long term loving relationship with a dominant woman. Friendship and affection are very important to me and I hope this would be the basis for developing a D/s relationship.

I am single, no ties, solvent, with good latin looks and a full head of hair. I have had a busy, enjoyable life. Started badly as a lawyer but then worked abroad in remote, exotic places for twelve happy years and now work in the arts which I love. I am loyal and stable but also creative, adventurous and romantic. I have lots of interests - especially the arts and travel. I like the open air, urban life, sunny climes, good food and learning. I would like to become a better cook and gardener. I laugh easily- especially at myself.

My orientation is towards D/s rather than S&M. With the right person I would be open to most things but I would say my main direction is towards power exchange. My kink is being told “these are my needs and wants and this is what I expect from you” - I have learnt from past experiences that relationships based on this dynamic are far more harmonious. Submissiveness enables me to be open, vulnerable and giving. I like to please, I yearn to surrender. I am not looking for a fantasy figure or icon, but a whole person who is warm and fun to be with as well as being dominant. My capacity to submit depends on closeness. I want to offer long term commitment and devotion and hope someone out there will be interested.

Eye colour: brown   Hair colour: brown   Height: 5ft 11in   Weight: 11st 12lb   BMI: 23.0  

This profile was last updated on 23 Jan 10, 12:26 PM.

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