After much thought i have decided to add this to my profile. If you are married, under the age of 40, seeing someone else and thinking of cheating, only wishing for a play partner and nothing more serious, then please move on. If you are looking for friendship, i'm happy to exchange memo's, i've found friendship is so important in this and i'm lucky enough to have some whom i really trust.

I'm an intelligent woman, i have a demanding job, two grown up children. I smoke, i'm not on any medication, fairly sane, have good as well as bad days, like the majority of us.

Complicated, at times opinionated, can be fun, sometimes i worry a lot, i have submissive traits, i'm not skinny, consider myself to be cuddly, so if you like your women with flat stomachs and no curves, then i'm not who your seeking.

For the right person i will go far on a journey of discovery, wonders who it may be. Likes to drink wine, cooks a fair meal, likes to eat out, reads The Guardian. I'm pretty quiet at times until i know folks, i enjoy the odd munch or fayre. Thinks i'm younger than i am........

Some call themselves Master, some say they are Dominant, i've sadly learnt that not all are what they pertane to be. As someone said, wheat and chaf, which are you?

“I do not want to be the leader. I refuse to be the leader. I want to live darkly and richly in my femaleness. I want a man lying over me, always over me. His will, his pleasure, his desire, his life, his work, his sexuality the touchstone, the command, my pivot. I don't mind working, holding my ground intellectually, artistically; but as a woman, oh, God, as a woman I want to be dominated. I don't mind being told to stand on my own feet, not to cling, be all that I am capable of doing, but I am going to be pursued, fucked, possessed by the will of a male at his time, his bidding.” Anais Nin

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