me...on a good day

IC Name: postman Joined: 16 Jun 2004 Last visit: 12 hours ago Sex/gender: Male Location: Warrington, UK Age: 36

I'm intelligent, communicative and fundamentally sane. I'm a very masculine looking but somewhat girly thinking bisexual man. I'm mature in outlook and experienced in BDSM. I have very wide tastes some of which some people consider extreme.

There are really 3 parts of me; the man, the girl and the baby.At the moment they are all coexisting very happily.

I am very caring and empathetic. I am very calm and am not spooked by other peoples feelings emotions or interests. I am very imaginative in the the things I do. I like to create warm safe play spaces in which to explore ......everything good or terrible.

I believe in loving exciting and passionate relationships. I am very genuine and would hate to feel that I've let anyone down. If i say I'll be there, I'll be there.

I am 100% bisexual. For me that much more than a physical or a play thing it means REAL emotional attachment to either a man or a woman.

Loves include; Good wine, Good food, conversation, philosophy, the theatre, sailing, swimming, skiing, cycling, piano playing (just started), walking, photography, architecture and reading.

Temperamentally; a quick witted thinker, extrovert, epicurean.

Play wise: A pain slut or sadist. Some people have called me a stunt bottom some people just call me a bastard (but in a nice way).

Up for most things. Responsive and noisy for those seeking feedback or i'll push you for a similar level of feedback.

With boys a cock taker not a giver but i'm a dab hand with my fingers, dildoes and strapons.

Bondage and role play are loves too. Watersports etc I just die for. Oh it's better if you read my interests list.

I also love medical play and would love to meet someone with clinical experience . Also rather like abduction and imprisonment play actually I like most things I can get my acting mind into.

Despite what you might be thinking (yes we switches really are confusing aren't we?) I am genuinely submissive when given the opportunity to do so, equally I'm a confident and experienced Top.

I'd never describe myself as a Dom or Master though. I find people's personalities far too interesting to want to suppress them for long and I don't want to 'own' anybody; interestingly in writing that I find myself romanticly drawn to the idea of being 'owned' but then run into a steel bar of trust issues. (thinks a bit of further reflection required there).

Very interested in poly relationships but believe in loving like a cat not a dog. (ask)

If asked to have a go at summing my BDSM philosophy up in one sentence it would be something like, "exploring everything, with mutual respect, for friendly loving fun".

Looking for: Actually life is full and happy at the moment.

I little note about my home life: I've a son who lives with me half the week, though from Sept onwards I'll get alternate Sat/Sundays to myself, I don't want him mixed up in this.

I'm very lucky, I've a female partner, 'Sapientia' and a new relationship with Lex Magister both on here.

Yahoo messenger:postman_n2005   Eye colour: Blue   Hair colour: Brown   Height: 6ft 3in   Weight: 16st   BMI: 27.8  

This profile was last updated on 9 Feb 12, 3:55 PM.

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