About us. I am the Domme side of the relationship. I am in my late 40's and I am of a fuller figure. I feel I have a very good understanding of what people are looking for. I can be very sensual when I need to be or, if necessary I can be very dominant and demanding.

My husband is also in his mid 40's and also on the larger side. He can be sub to the right Mistress and he sometimes likes to cross dress, again with the right play mate. He has been in the scene much longer than I and has an immense amount of experience and on occasions he can switch.

What we are looking for. We have recently set up a small group of friends with the same interests BDSM. Although this can't be put under a single category, we understand everyone has there own likes/dislikes which is why the group is growing so fast. We are looking to meet other couples, singles (either gender) Mistresses or Masters Subs or TV's. We have now all agreed on a name for the group which is SLAP; we will explain what it stands for if we meet. Initially we would like to meet anyone interested in becoming friends and eventually integrating into the group, whether you are looking to play or just find your way around BDSM. It matters not also whether you have lots of experience or are very new and nervous, all are welcome. The parties are held on a 2 to 3 month basis and are held at a private location so it is important we have met prior to a party so we can make sure that everyone has a great time and the balance of guests is maintained. There is no financial obligation to join us and the party is simply £5 per head to pay for the buffet and soft drinks. We also have a very well equipped dungeon available if you want to play and it is discreet, so if you are a little shy you can close the doors to play in private. There is also a second and third playroom for further play. On the other hand, you may want another Mistress/Master to take charge of your sub the choice is yours.

As I said, it is a detailed profile, (sorry), all you have to do now is send us an e-mail with something about you and what your interests are and of course please send us a phone number so we can contact you because we don't really want to get into long e-mail conversations, and please be honest because we are all 100% honest and genuine.

Many thanks.

SLAP