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IC Name: paddbear Joined: 8 May 2004 Last visit: 35 hours ago Sex/gender: Male Location: Cambridge, UK Age: 54

I prefer mostly to be on the Dominant / top / active side these days, but I am a switchy type and I do also have a strong masochistic (NOT submissive) streak.

Although I'm not actively looking for playpartners just now, I am, shall we say, open to opportunities that might arise. However I am married (for 23 years and counting), and my relationship with my wife is still basically the primary relationship in my life. So any potential playpartners would have to be OK with that.

I seem to have survived the dreaded "five-oh" without becoming any the worse for wear. I still feel not a day older than 29, and I think I look and act considerably younger than what the calendar seems to say.

Outside of BDSM, my interests include classical music, messing around with computers, and travel. (Recent trips have included Cambodia, Ukraine, and East Africa. The picture in my profile shows me on the summit of the volcano Villarrica in Chile.)

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