IC Name: oscagne_uk Joined: 17 Feb 2005 Last visit: 16 hours ago Sex/gender: Male Location: Leamington Spa, UK Age: 37 Website: http://members.tri...

Well, I guess you're reading this to possibly find out more about me, so here goes (you have been warned!). In basic terms then I'm male, 35yrs old, single, submissive male sometimes transvestite.

What am I looking for? Friendship, Fun, Relationship - and in that order....

Friendship: You can never have too many friends I feel, and the more the merrier.

Fun: Hey, if the friendship turns into something with an occasional BDSM slant, then brilliant... (by occasional BDSM slant, i mean some kind of "play" every so often, be in it private or at a club, or whatever).

Relationship: When I find the right person, and the click is there, and things develop, then my life will be complete, but in the meantime i won't be any poorer for the previous items on this list.

I'll be friends with any person - male, female, tv, ts, sub, dom, switch, gay, lesbian, bi, monogamous, polyamourous, married, single, dating, white skinned, black skinned, brown skinned, purple with green spots skinned, young or old (and any combination of the above). So long as you are polite, trustworthy, honest and good mannered.

I can't stand dishonesty, and bad manners and impoliteness, but trust is very important to me. Earn mine and it'll be reciprocated in bucket loads, and if nothing else, you'll earn a good friend.

If things go beyond friendship into the fun or relationship category then I'd prefer a long term relationship, but am equally happy with what i would describe as an "extended friendship" - our primary interaction would be as friends with a play/bdsm/sexual (take your choice, or all three if you wish) side thrown in for good measure when we're both in the mood.

I am not however looking for a one night stand, nor will I will not be party to someone playing behind their own partner's back. Either it's out in the open and everyone is happy to operate within the rules that get set, or it's a no go, and if you are part of an existing couple, then interaction at some level between all parties is essential though that doesn't necessarily mean BDSM interaction - it can be simply as socialising with the non-participating partner, or can mean whatever else we all agree to.

OK - that's the boring crap out the way. Let's see - I'm sub male single, tv. I've been in various relationships in the past with Dominant Females, some sexual, some strictly non-sexual - depending on the agreements in place and am open minded about what level any future relationship takes place on.

I have organised over the years a variety of munches, most recently the Leamington Spa munch though work and other factors have meant that I've had to hand that over to someone else - at least for the moment.

Feel free to check out the stuff i have written on my homepage address above - Most is fiction, some is non-fiction and after that, if you have any questions, let me know.

I would like to believe that friends would describe me as honourable, loyal, reliable, trustworth and good natured (amongst many other things) and references are available upon request. One friend recently went as far as saying the following:

"osc, you are one of life's fabulous people, you have a wealth of knowledge and are not afraid to share it, you are kind hearted, have a wicked sense of humour, a genuinely all round nice guy (in a good way folks!! nice dommes please take note *Smiles*), and as for Steph, it's always a pleasure to see her."

"However, what I meant with the "in a good way" in this instance is that this particular "nice guy" is not one of those, he has bags of personality, a fab smile and lots of things about him will captivate a woman's interest for a very long time (I could go on, but I won't *Smiles)."

Professionally, I'm a IT Support Consultant - and am about to start getting back out and about after being away from the "scene" for a long while. Away from work, i relax either with a good film, a book, meeting up with friends around the country, or just chatting on line with friends (though a good single malt or good food is also another ideal way to unwind i find - especially when shared with friends).

Just to finish - never take anything written here as the be all and end all - just a guideline as to where i've been, where i'd maybe like to go, and where i'm at. Everything beyond that is negotiable and subject to change without notice.

Want to know more - send me a message and ask

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The photos on my profile (once approved) show my recent weight loss journey - in total - over 14.5stone. This has lead to there being ALOT of loose skin - especially on the tights and around the stomach. I'd rather have the loose skin though then carrying around the weight - but can understand that some folk are not going to like that aspect if things developed - so please be warned now.

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Currently selling a lot of outsized clothes (up to size 32) - including TV stuff (dresses/skirts/tops/tights/stockings/wigs) on ebay - oscagne_uk is the seller profile.

Yahoo messenger:oscagne29uk   Eye colour: blue   Hair colour: dark brown   Height: 5ft 10in   Weight: 11st 12lb   BMI: 23.6  

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