IC Name: nicefeller Joined: 27 Dec 2010 Last visit: 117 minutes ago Sex/gender: Male Location: BA (Bath), UK Age: 59

Well, it's been awhile since I joined this merry little circus! Time for an update p'raps ...

It's been a delight meeting some folk here in chat rooms, and the few folks who I have now met in "real life"! And my special thanks to the *3* delightful folk who have actually memoed me from reading my profile (especially MissGiving, you Delectable Domme you, who ONE day I'm going to travel to Bolton to meet! )

However, don't want to remain a bondage virgin for ANOTHER 3 years (might be exaggerating - I have a warped sense of time), so I'm gonna shout it out a bit!

Hey all you women that hang out with absolute bastards and moan that there are no reliable, sensitive, kind, caring, generous, loving, fun, sensual, gentle, safely wicked, trustworthy, quiet and available men around! Yes there are, and I AM one! Not only that I actually have TIME these days that I'd really like to devote to somebody wonderful.

So, if you are a woman of heart and soul who would like someone you can seriously hang loose and be yourself with - I could be your man! There's a few things I WON'T do for you - they include lieing and cheating or pressuring you in any way. That's a long term habit of mine - rarely seems to get me the girl, but at least I sleep well at nights.

Yeah - I'd like to find my "One". If by some incredible twist of fate you're out there - PLEASE FIND ME!! I still have a notion that just possibly I could end my days with the love of my life!

In the meantime, I'd LOVE to meet a lady who'd enjoy playing "tie up games"! There MUST be ladies out there that would like to try bondage (giving and/or receiving!) that have just been too frightened to risk actually doing it. And to you I ask get to know me before we play! Take as long as you like, feel me out - you'll find out I'm ridiculously trustworthy! Would love to make new friends! (And to be honest I'd need to feel YOU out too before I let YOU loose with the rope!)

For those subby ladies who long for abuse, happy to chat, but please - I don't get it - I won't take part in it! (Got to say spanking's kinda fun though! )

Believe it or not good looks are nowhere near as important to me as an honest, kind and open heart!

I do hope to start attending some events. I've done a couple of Munches but not yet a "play" event. All the most attractive (to me) ones seem to be a ways away with them oop north getting most of the fun! Still, Birmingham ought to be within my grasp ...

I'll leave my original profile underneath, cos nothing's changed - well nearly EVERYTHING changed - but it's all come around again ...

Hoping to meet ...

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Dear All,

After all these years I reckon it's time to stick my neck out a bit on the offchance that I might meet friendly folk of a similar persuasion to myself, though can't say that I have to date!

I'm 59, 6 foot, slim, not entirely ugly, but sadly rather slowed down due to slightly knackered lungs (to use my doctor's expression …) I know I haven't put up a photo – I'm not publicly “out” regarding my interests, and because of profession and family would prefer it stay that way – but I'm perfectly happy to send my pics to anyone who's interested, just so long as they don't suddenly go public!

Why am I here? (Now THERE'S a question!) Well, despite being more or less satisfied with my lot in life I've never had the opportunity to explore the BDSM thing. And it's the B bit of the equation that rocks my boat and makes my heart beat faster!

I reckon on balance I'd be considered mostly a bit “sub” - but no doormat! (Can't be doing with that “worthless little worm” image so prevalent on the net!) I think you'd find me to be a kind, considerate, reasonably intelligent sort of fellow.

What am I looking for? (Another good question!) Well, if the stars (and the Goddess) happened to be smiling upon me, it would be to meet a reasonably “sorted” lady with a bit of a bondage fetish! Now whilst I definitely want to be on the receiving end I reckon I could be rather good at doing it to others! In fact I'd really rather like to learn shibari – but perhaps I'm jumping the gun a bit here!

I don't think I'm in the market for a “relationship(!)” (although I am single not totally against the idea). I read that being tied up is one of the most common fantasies of both men and women. Well, I've never met any of them yet! I'd be delighted to communicate with some of them – perhaps this is where you all live?!

In “real” life I'm a musician and part time healer. I give a mean massage! (Or a ludicrously gentle one <grin>)

So, hoping to meet …

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Eye colour: blue   Hair colour: grey   Height: 6ft   Weight: 11st 7lb   BMI: 21.7  

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