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I'm a polyamorous librarian with a growing love of rope and a strong submissive streak (although with the right person I will feel a switchy urge or two). My partner is awesome and although he doesn't share them is quite supportive of my kinky quirks. We seek out new relationships and partners separately as we're looking to compliment different desires, however we have played together with other people in the past and are open to doing so again if the opportunity presents.
A bit of a fan when it comes to Violet Wands and a flogger or two and yes, rope is definitely a good thing. Very very good. I love the way it looks, feels, and in regards to hemp, the way it smells. Especially when mixed in with sensation play. Wrestling, tickling, poking, bending and twisting are also quite enjoyable. I enjoy struggling and fighting back, especially if it includes overpowering someone of greater strength. Being overpowered has its rewards too of course and it can be fun to be put in ones place after misbehaving or pushing back. Mostly though I'm fairly well behaved, I can't help it.
I'm sensitive to touch which means I treat the skin of others with high respect, I will not touch, cuddle or reach out unless there is an expressed invitation. It may seem as though I am being distant or standoffish at times, but this is a matter of self preservation as I have a strong tendency to curl up into a purring ball of compliance when stroked or cuddled the right way. Basically, don't touch me unless you mean it.
I enjoy running and swimming and generally being outside. The idea of mixing rope play with water, streams and trees is something incredibly tantalising and probably stems at least partially from my attraction to the old fairy tales but mostly from a childhood spent running around climbing trees and swimming in murky rivers.
Primarily, I'm here to meet like minded people and develop friendships. I am a very quiet person (well until I reach a certain level of comfort, then I can natter with the best of them, but this can take a while) and often feel absolutely no need to start a conversation so if you run into me at an event please don't take offence from my silence. It's not that I don't enjoy a good chat, just that I find it difficult to do so in loud or boisterous settings and am often having an excellent time watching what everyone else is getting up to.
An admitted bibliophile (see previous re:librarian) with a weakness for speculative fiction, both on and off the page, one of the quickest ways to open me up and start a conversation is to mention a book or film, chances are I've read/seen it or will want to once you've told me about the great story.
Eye colour: blue Hair colour: brown Height: 5ft 6in
This profile was last updated on 22 Nov 10, 10:16 PM.
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