IC Name: mister_steven Joined: 3 Nov 2006 Last visit: 42 days ago Sex/gender: Male Location: london, UK Age: 60

I'm a professional man in my mid 50s, well kept, sensual, intelligent and modest Have been around 'the scene' some 10 years but have mainly played with friends or lovers I met in a vanilla context.

I dislike fitting my sexuality into pigeon holes - I get excited by both sub and dom things.

Some things I like only as a Sub. For example I like restraining a woman but dont like being restrained. Some things I like only as a Dom - I get really into licking a woman's feet but having mine licked leaves me rather cold. When it comes to things like obedience, serving, pain, and punishment, I adore the role of Dom and equally that of Sub.

(Not at the same time - I'll have you know)

Why not call myself a switch? Well this word seems to imply someone who's stuck in the middle, who isnt really one thing or the other. This is decidedly not how I feel. When in a dominant role I'm totally utterly dominant. My urges, my feelings, my desires are as strong as they would be if i knew nothing but domination.

The same applies to what I feel when I'm sub.

BDSM means more to me than physical play - delightful though that is.

My vanilla scenes were moulded by hidden urges: a desire to control a woman, to have her obey me. I always loved punishing lovers who displeased me. Before I got into BDSM, however, such lusts were never admitted - even to myself. They crept into my love deviously, guiltily and ultimately destructively.

I like to think these wonderful games release hidden appetites, help me accept them, even be proud of them, satisfy them and thus make my love affairs more successful. There's a little evidence that this is happening. But even if they dont, it will be a very pleasant failure.

Of course, I'm not into BDSM for marriage guidance. I love it anyway. Better relationship are icing on the cake.

My main pleasures are bondage, d/s, exhibitionism, exploring the giving and taking pain.

Am delighted to simply play but if I meet someone who wants more, well, I rule nothing out.

Yahoo messenger:stevenedwards57   Eye colour: brown   Hair colour: shaven   Height: 5ft 11in   Weight: 11st   BMI: 21.3  

This profile was last updated on 5 Apr 10, 7:55 PM.

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