My experience so far is limited but, well, bondage, pain, cp, control, some dressing up, a few new bits of kit... all good. My stated interests may seem narrow, but I'm definitely up for expanding my repertoire as well as pushing my boundaries (ok scat and a few other things don't interest me).

I'm looking for trustworthy, experienced, imaginative, articulate and interesting people - and a sense of humour never hurt. Verbal skills really do it for me. I really like being talked to, whether it's being questioned, told what to do or just having things explained.

I'm quite inexperienced, so you should be someone who is going to enjoy the journey. Integrity, intelligence and authority are really important, and for me there NEEDS to be physical attraction. I'm not a total fascist, but I don't kiss frogs, and am very unlikely to reply to messages from people who don't send me pictures.