“I feel a good submissive should be like an Italian Courtesan of the middle Ages. Loyal, obedient, subservient, and if you mistreat them they slit your throat before you have a chance to apologize." - Anon

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I am a fierce, passionate, happy, unfocused (aka eccentric, bohemian, unconventional and completely dippy) switch, originally from South Africa and now permanently resident in London. In need of violence, pain, contempt and cruelty, but ever willing to nurture the wounded bird. I've never really understood the purpose of rule books or conventions, but am fascinated by history, tradition, culture and context. Constantly struggling to find the overlap between “friend” and “lover”. Incapable of following a simple instruction, but I may have found someone who can Make me.

My interests include (among others) an art history degree, archery, kite flying, gym, blogging, travelling, photography, sailing, windsurfing, gardening and bdsm, all of which evolve constantly depending on the people I meet and the friends I make. My bdsm passions include submission to dominant men and women, rope and edge play (open to interpretation). I am addicted to being roped and suspended. But like all good contradictions, I'm addicted to tying others in rope as well.

Hungry for more of everything, always.

I'm very sociable and love to chat to people, but I have a terrible memory for names, so please forgive me if I ask your name more than once (something I've been known to do with several legendary and unforgettable members of IC).

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I enjoy Hades as well as The London Munch , The London Ladies Munch , The Putney Munch and I'm a great fan of CCK .

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Also known as MsCreant