Oww...damn..should've hidden the slippers...

IC Name: mermaiduk Joined: 8 Aug 2003 Last visit: 9 hours ago Sex/gender: Female Location: London, UK Age: 48

I'm a straightforward kind of a woman looking for a normal relationship with an attractive, intelligent male (44-60), but one which involves spanking as a central part of it. Erotic..punishment..instant justice...playful...I love spanking in all of its forms and it's the primary reason I'm here. I want the the erotic charge of it to underpin my relationship and bind us together just as much as our friendship, shared values and mutual interests would.

Aside from spanking, I'm sexually adventurous and willing to try new things with the right partner. The Daddy Dom dynamic is something which I am fascinated by but have no experience of...yet...

I'm at the thin end of the wedge where D/s is concerned. I adore the differences between male and female and at its most basic I think D/s is about extreme masculinity and extreme femininity. I'm sexually submissive but not passive. I don't subscribe to the majority BDSM theory of seeing my submission as a 'gift'; that implies it can be taken away. I see it as a basic need in me that needs complementing by its opposite. I need to be with a strong male who is confident, enjoys his life/work, knows who and what he is, is secure in his abilities and identity. Someone I can trust and respect to take control and care of me: sexually, emotionally and punitively when called for. There has to be compatibility on all levels and a sense of humour is a must (and I promise you I do have one...! )

I'm not a scene person and a lot of bdsm wanky bollocks about journeys (yawn), gifts and insane practices justified by 'hey! Your kink is ok!' irritates the Christ out of me so if you're a BDSM Fundamentalist or your favourite thing is to dress up like Hannibal Lecter and reverse over your sub in a Ford Transit, I'm probably not for you.

You don't know when you became 'a Dom'; you're just naturally inclined that way and always have been.

I'm a 'glass-half-full', attractive, confident, creative woman who is not lacking in self esteem. I'm happy to exchange photos once a connection has been established.

I'm passionate about music and a genuine interest in this would be a real bonus (acoustic/folk/bluegrass/jazz/blues/rock/ classical/ opera). Otherwise I'm liable to bore you to death.

I try to eat/live healthily and am interested in keeping fit (cycling, swimming, the gym) and it would be nice to meet someone who also of this ilk (main thing is you're not a smoker - I'm an ex smoker and don't want the temptation!)

I live in SW London and enjoy all the things this wonderful city has to offer. I have a wide circle of friends from astrologers to lawyers to musicians, come from a happy family background and apart from this kink of mine, I really am a regular girl

I'm not interested in married or attached men so please do not waste your time contacting me if this is your status. Similarly, if you contact me by memo or message and you haven't bothered to write a profile, then you shouldn't really expect any kind of response.

Finally....

Joyful, musical genius:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8IJzYAda1wA&featu...

and

(Un-pc)Genius:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QmSezwugtd8

Thanks for reading.

Eye colour: Hazel   Hair colour: Dark brown   Height: 5ft 1in   Weight: 10st 2lb   BMI: 26.6  

This profile was last updated on 1 Jan 12, 4:52 PM.

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