New antique chair; oh, and my new corset too.

IC Name: mayflair Joined: 5 Feb 2011 Last visit: 9 days ago Sex/gender: Male Location: essex, UK Age: 51

Hi, welcome to my profile.

Where to begin? This is difficult for me, being a natural born submissive, who is very quiet, unassuming, and who also has self deprecating tendencies too, (I call it being honest about myself, or at least how I see myself), I'm more likely to put myself down, rather than big myself up.

I'm fully aware that mentioning 'ex-partners' on an introductory profile is considered bad form, but I'd like to quote one if I may; indulge me, after all who could possibly know me better. She was trying to be derogatory about me at the time, so I'll leave out most of the expletives, "You're a @%/*ing great lover, but you're a @%/*ing lousy husband"; married and divorced twice, I'm not going to argue with that; I obviously wasn't right for them.

As I said I'm very quiet and unassuming, (a kinky male version of Mavis Riley), which is probably why I consider myself a 'natural' submissive as opposed to someone who's dominant in their everyday life and only wishes to be submissive, (for a change/kink), in their private lives. I'm not a doormat, I just genuinely would rather please than annoy people, and will generally go out of my way for anyone in order to do so; unfortunately you can never please all the people all the time, and when I do upset someone, it should be understood that it's down to my thoughtlessness and is never ever intentional, (that shouldn't excuse me from being punished though). So, quiet, unassuming, self deprecating and thoughtless too, not doing very well at selling myself am I, but just remember, I'm a "@%/*ing great lover".........., apparently.

I describe my sexuality as Bi-sexual, (for want of a better word). I couldn't ever imagine myself having a conventional relationships with another man, but I do enjoy all the pleasures of gay sex; just think about it guys, it if it wasn't physically pleasurable gay men would all be celibate. I do like to do a little bit of cross-dressing too; but not into the whole TV/sissy maid thing, but quite happy to participate if that's your thing.

Despite having been submissive all my life, the BDSM lifestyle is relatively new to me, although I have in the past six years taken part in threesomes, foursomes and more somes, and experienced some mild bondage and CP. I'm looking to expand my horizons, but not 100% sure of how far I want to expand those horizons at this moment in time; I've seen some pretty horrific pictures on this site of sub's bloodied and mutilated backsides after a damn good thrashing, and I don't think I'm quite ready for that just yet, ( but never say never!).

I'm here looking for friendship, fun and acceptance; possibly even a LTR, (who knows?). I wouldn't say I was LOOKING for love, but we all know that's usually when it FINDS us, and who knows, with the right person I might not be a "@%/*ing lousy" long term prospect after all. In the meantime I'm available just for fun times, to be used and mutually enjoyed by couples, singles, Doms or Dommes, and to perhaps accompany others, (M or F), to clubs, munches, parties, etc.; would really appreciate invites and introductions. Initially I can be very very chatty, (as Ringo Starr once said "it's me active compensatory factor"), although in those circumstances I probably talk a load of bollocks; you just have to tell me to shut the f**k up though. So, quiet, unassuming, thoughtless, self deprecating and talks bollocks, but don't forget, apparently I'm a "@%/*ing great lover" too, (I have already mentioned that, haven't I?).

I have no age barriers; except the obvious, (certainly not into kiddie porn), but would prefer someone who hasn't just googled "Mavis Riley" to find out who she is.

Please don't take everything that's written here too seriously, my ex-wife's comments are hers and not mine. I don't, and never have, considerd myself "great", (sorry); "not bad" perhaps, (plenty of praise and no complaints yet), and besides MF penetrative sex is NOT what I'm seeking at this time. Obviously I am a single red blooded male and if it's freely offered I'm not going to turn it down, but that's NOT what I'm looking for; there's plenty of other sites for that.

Thank you for taking the time to read my profile, I hope it captures something of who I am, and says enough about me to make you at least think twice. Hope you have enjoyed looking at my pictures too; they are all genuine; and recent.

Eye colour: brown   Hair colour: brown   Height: 5ft 7in  

This profile was last updated on 25 Mar 11, 8:57 PM.

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